Mjm1014 Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 I'm 26, single, and completely baffled how I am suppose to meet a decent girl. I haven't been in a serious relationship in over two years but since then I've been trying through online dating, bars, but nothing has worked out. I feel like online girls are overly picky online since they have so many options, and when I go to the bars I don't feel like I stand a chance since the ratio in my area sucks and all the girls are taller than me in their heels (I'm 5'6). All the guys I work with are single or are in long distance relationships so there really is no way to be introduced to any. Also, I have no female friends anymore..I feel like there is no hope unless something drastic happens. Is it weird that I'm 26 and completely out of options? I don't understand what I'm doing wrong..I'm in good shape, I've been told throughout my life over and over I am good looking but no one stays interested or ever wants to get to know me..actually, it's always been me that's been more interested in the girl than they are in me. It's hard not to feel like a failure. I'm not looking for pity but does anyone have any suggestions? Do I go up to random stangers? That's never been me and I hate even suggesting that. Oh and I work 6 days a week, long days with basically all men-last thing I want to do is join a club I have no interest in....
Balzac Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 Large urban area? Doesn't sound like it. Coast of Flyover zone? Help us out. I mean middle of TX, medium city working IT in a town of high school grads?
Philosoraptor Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 First thing I'd say is to be patient. Metting a good match takes time, so you're best off not to stress. Next I'd say yes, walk up to strangers when you are out places. If they interest you what do you really have to lose by starting a conversation? Worst they can do is reject you, and they're just a stranger at that point anyways so their opinion doesn't matter. 1
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