Author ComingInHot Posted August 23, 2013 Author Posted August 23, 2013 finally settled wrote, "Happy Anniversary to you and Mr Hot." AHHAHA!! Thanks Settled!** 1
lilmisscantbewrong Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 Happy Anniversary! I always appreciate your kind, loving and heartfelt responses! Have a great weekend!
compulsivedancer Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 Happy Anniversary, CIH! That is wonderful to hear and you deserve to enjoy every moment! To answer your question, this will be our first anniversary since Dday. Its coming up this fall and I'm really nervous about it. My WHs affair was very short term and didn't continue through our anniversary which I am relieved about. But since it happened less than a year ago I'm still reluctant to celebrate. My H is excited about it and wants to go on a trip to the place where we got married but I am less than enthused. I hope in a few months I will actually be happy again to celebrate. Our anniversary was about 5 months after Dday (about a month ago). I was not in an A the previous anniversary, so at least there was that. We tried really hard to make it special, but I felt like such a fool afterwards when I realized that I was trying too hard and he was just sucking it up for me and wanted it to be over. If I had understood that, I would've made it much more low-key, if that was possible. He told me that week that he was still not sure we were going to make it. Once the week was past, he seemed more sure; a lot of it was the trigger of an anniversary. I had posted wedding pictures on FB in celebration, because I was just so happy that we were still together to celebrate, and it was so hard to look at my page, but I couldn't bring myself to take them down. I finally changed them last week.
compulsivedancer Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 To Everyone here, Thank You all so much for taking the time today to wish me well!! I was thinking that I may have been selfish today in posting about my anniversary. I know there are many struggling with this. And I was right there too! I just wanted to be a little sunshine to some who wonder if things will ever get better With their spouse who cheated. In my case (so far) yes, things did get better. And you know what? Whether anyone decides to R or D, things will & Do get better** Anyway, thanks for letting me share LSers! I'm glad it was wonderful! It's so good to see a positive post on here and know that it can get better. 2
whatatangledweb Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 Happy Anniversary !!! Our first one after d-day was hard but the rest have not triggered me. This year will be 22 years. 2
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