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was I being fooled?


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it is just that somebody I know told me how depressed they were and why. I helped with practical ideas, listened, offered more ideas, more listening. This went on for a few days a month ago, and then this week too.

 

I know him thru work, he is 40 I am 60. I told him I have a boyfriend at the outset

 

He did not realize his very sad convos were starting to live rent-free in my head, so I talked to him about them, they were really affecting my happiness, til I felt suicidal, srsly.

 

I am just wondering if he was trying to bring out my caring side on purpose, in our convos that required pitying him. He could sure bite my head off if I did not pay attention to every word, tbh, he had me running for the hills, way too miserable to keep in touch with, I told him to see a Doctor...

 

he is cheerful now, btw

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