seren Posted August 26, 2013 Posted August 26, 2013 Out of mere curiosity: Looking back how did your husband treat you during the affair? He was distant at times, often moody and picky Was he sharp with you snappy, and telling you you nag too much? Not that I nagged too much, I don't do nagging. But he was sharp at times, he also had me convinced I was imagining his moods or snappy mood, so out of character for him Was he extra nice? Or was he the same? We went to a ball and he bought me a very expensive dress, kept telling me I deserved better than him, kept telling me he was no good. Did you notice his behaviour was different? Yes, I assumed work stress, he told me there was nothing wrong, there was no one, I said if he wanted to leave I would help him to do so and wish him well because I loved him and wanted him to be happy, if not with me, then without me. I never, ever suspected an A. We still laughed, loved, were intimate, that didn't change, we planned for our future, we danced at the ball to our song and he cried and he told me he loved me so much and that I should leave as he was a bad man. Later he told me about the A and the why WS if any here did you notice you were behaving differently? Please answer the questions specified many thanks I have answered in bold 2
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