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End of a second date, no kiss...?

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Star Gazer Established Member

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I don't think he's "too nice." I'm not worried about that. :)

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And I could be reading you wrong here, in your photos I see a fun girl, one who likes to go out with friends, drink, maybe get a little crazy, but in control when she does. I read that in your comments on LS too.

 

No, I do not "get a little crazy" on a regular basis, special occasions/celebrations only...and that's only a few times a year.

 

Question: are the two of you compataible this way?

 

How would I know? It's been two dates.

 

That said, we share similar lifestyles in every way I can think of.

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No, I do not "get a little crazy" on a regular basis, special occasions/celebrations only...and that's only a few times a year.

 

 

 

How would I know? It's been two dates.

 

That said, we share similar lifestyles in every way I can think of.

 

Agreed, I was not suggesting anything more than special occassions/celebrations...

 

Just a thought, try to help ya out.

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Have you ever just met someone, or been on a first date, and everything is clicking so well and the chemistry is undeniable to the point where if he asked you to, you would WANT to spend the night with him? Note I said "want" and not "would".

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Have you ever just met someone, or been on a first date, and everything is clicking so well and the chemistry is undeniable to the point where if he asked you to, you would WANT to spend the night with him? Note I said "want" and not "would".

 

Yes, of course.

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Have you ever just met someone, or been on a first date, and everything is clicking so well and the chemistry is undeniable to the point where if he asked you to, you would WANT to spend the night with him? Note I said "want" and not "would".

 

Man here, many times. Though I have also had the case where the 1st date was good, and the 2nd date is what you describe.

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Man here, many times. Though I have also had the case where the 1st date was good, and the 2nd date is what you describe.

 

Think he was directing that at me. :)

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Babolat is leaving the room! :laugh:

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Babolat is leaving the room! :laugh:

 

Oh, shush!! :laugh:

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You texted him and thanked him didn't you?

 

Yes, I did. You think that's enough?

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Yes, of course.

 

Do you feel that with this guy?

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Do you feel that with this guy?

 

Now? Yes. After the first date, no, I wasn't thinking about effing him. Feeling that way on a first date is very rare for me, and usually speaks to other issues.

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Now? Yes. After the first date, no, I wasn't thinking about effing him. Feeling that way on a first date is very rare for me, and usually speaks to other issues.

 

Then quit effing around, woman!!! :)

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Then quit effing around, woman!!! :)

 

What does that meeeeannnnn? :laugh:

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Yes, I did. You think that's enough?

 

Back in the room, but just for a sec...

 

I personally love it when a woman texts me later to say thanks, I had a great time, something like that. And I also love it when a woman asks me to text her when I get home, to make sure I got home safely. I seem to get that "request" a lot.

 

One of the girls I have been hanging out with always texts me when she gets home to say she had a great time, great conversation and tosses something funny in too, like something we talked about or laughed about that night. I like it a lot.

 

She is the one I want to kiss, I am attracted to her, but I just can't right now. We have probably been out 6-7 times over 3 months, though I prefaced our first get together with "friends". Though we met 2 years ago and we were planning a date then but I ended up meeting my ex gf in the meantime.

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What does that meeeeannnnn? :laugh:

 

If you like the guy, go get him.

 

Don't sit around waiting for him to make the first move.

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If you like the guy, go get him.

 

Don't sit around waiting for him to make the first move.

 

Okay, FINE!!!

 

Off I go... Will report back, hopefully not to retrieve my spanking from tbf and Seuss.

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I would have liked a lil' ass grab. ;)

 

I like your style. :)

 

But ass grabs on a first/second date before that first kiss aren't exactly Dating 101, so maybe your guy hasn't got to that chapter yet.

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I RARELY kiss on the first date, and when I do it's usually been planted on me out of nowhere. I just don't think it's appropriate.

 

Fair enough... but this leaves only a very narrow window to get that first kiss to you. First date: too fast. Third date: too late.

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Fair enough... but this leaves only a very narrow window to get that first kiss to you. First date: too fast. Third date: too late.

 

I'm like Goldilocks. ;)

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*Sigh* :rolleyes:

 

If after two dates I can't initiate a text, I'll be single forever. It's physically impossible for me to lay idle when I want something.

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Aren't you dating other people? If not, you should be.

 

Yup! Three. I have options, don't you worry.

 

Out of curiosity, is this the one who messaged your friend, too?

 

Nooooo. He's not in the rotation anymore.

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Are we having fun yet?:laugh:

 

TFY

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What does this have anything to do with why he didn't kiss me at the end of a second date/whether he's really interested in seeing me again?

He asks every reasonably girl these questions. Do not pay attention to him! :laugh:

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Aren't you dating other people? If not, you should be.

 

If you had other prospects you wouldn't be so caught up in this one dude who won't lay one on ya and says non-committal stuff like, "Let me know...?" I mean wtf is that. Psh.

 

Text me, ask me out dude! You're a catch, SG. He should be barkin' up the SG tree like a rabid dog.

 

Out of curiosity, is this the one who messaged your friend, too?

 

THANK YOU.

 

Also, I'm lining up with Drseussgrrl and tbf to give you that spanking. Dammit, woman, let him do the pursuing, and you continue to date guys until one tries to take you down and make you his, and he better have demonstrated that he's worthy of your commitment.

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