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Using first names - a simple, effective way to flirt?


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Originally posted by littlelaxer

If you think its a good time this week comming up...then go for it. But remember u are tryin to take baby steps i just wouldnt go in there on monday and ask her out when earlier u were saying in about a week and a half. BUt like i said when u think its a good time. Take things slow

 

I won't do it Monday, but probably later this week. Like I said, I need to break the redundancy of our conversations, because the "small talk" takes up all of the 60 seconds I get every day. Lol. I will closely monitor this to make sure I'm not moving too fast, but all indications so far indicate that she's pretty comfortable with me.

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The use of peoples names MERIN in casual conversation MERIN when you are interested in them MERIN.. I think is a very good MERIN idea...

 

People MERIN really do like to hear thier name MERIN and I think it does show, that you've an interest in them MERIN.. it's kind of flirty MERIN.

 

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Dave, Dave, Dave... I think you're on to something! LOL Best of luck with it;)

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Originally posted by Merin2

The use of peoples names MERIN in casual conversation MERIN when you are interested in them MERIN.. I think is a very good MERIN idea...

 

People MERIN really do like to hear thier name MERIN and I think it does show, that you've an interest in them MERIN.. it's kind of flirty MERIN.

 

:laugh:

 

Dave, Dave, Dave... I think you're on to something! LOL Best of luck with it;)

 

LOL, thanks for that. I try to use her first name about every other day - I do think that it is something that is more effective in controlled, well-timed doses. Who knows if she thinks I'm just being polite, but things should become a little more clear each passing week. At least I hope so. Lol.

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Good afternoon to you Merin. I think Dave has stummbled on to something Merin, don't you agree Merin? Because I do Merin ;):p

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Originally posted by iceisles

LOL, thanks for that. I try to use her first name about every other day - I do think that it is something that is more effective in controlled, well-timed doses. Who knows if she thinks I'm just being polite, but things should become a little more clear each passing week. At least I hope so. Lol.

 

:laugh:

 

You know what is going to be key... that you're sincere;)

 

Polite is never a bad thing.. sincerity is ALWAYS a good thing..

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Hey Merin - is that your picture? If it is, Merin, I must say than you are gorgeous. :)

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Originally posted by naive_2001

Good afternoon to you Merin. I think Dave has stummbled on to something Merin, don't you agree Merin? Because I do Merin ;):p

 

Good Afternoon to you Naive. I for real think Dave has something here Naive... yes yes he does Naive. I would have to agree with you 110% Naive, and not just because you're such an amazing, insightful person Naive.. :p

 

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Originally posted by Merin2

Good Afternoon to you Naive. I for real think Dave has something here Naive... yes yes he does Naive. I would have to agree with you 110% Naive, and not just because you're such an amazing, insightful person Naive.. :p

 

:laugh:

 

LOL, I just choked on my M&M's and nearly fell out of my chair reading this. :)

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Originally posted by iceisles

Hey Merin - is that your picture? If it is, Merin, I must say than you are gorgeous. :)

 

:laugh: Thanks Dave! Yes, Dave it is my photo.. thank you sooooo much for the compliment Dave;)

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Originally posted by iceisles

LOL, I just choked on my M&M's and nearly fell out of my chair reading this. :)

 

:lmao: got to love the M&M's.. DAVE! ;)

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Originally posted by Merin2

:laugh: Thanks Dave! Yes, Dave it is my photo.. thank you sooooo much for the compliment Dave;)

 

Anytime, Merin. You are more than welcome, Merin, because the compliment is well deserved. Know what I'm sayin', Merin? :cool:

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Originally posted by iceisles

Anytime, Merin. You are more than welcome, Merin, because the compliment is well deserved. Know what I'm sayin', Merin? :cool:

 

:lmao:

 

Yes Dave, I know what you're saying Dave.. again many many thanks Dave;)

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I really hope there is something to my theory. When people use my first name, I take that as a show of confidence from the other person. I hear girls like confident guys, so maybe I have that going for me. Or not. :)

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Originally posted by iceisles

I really hope there is something to my theory. When people use my first name, I take that as a show of confidence from the other person. I hear girls like confident guys, so maybe I have that going for me. Or not. :)

 

IMO it's an excellent theory.. I mean that sincerely;)

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Originally posted by Merin2

IMO it's an excellent theory.. I mean that sincerely;)

 

I'm glad to hear that. What's your age/location, Merin? :)

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Originally posted by iceisles

I'm glad to hear that. What's your age/location, Merin? :)

 

Check your pm's :)

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Originally posted by Merin2

Check your pm's :)

 

Just did - thank you very much. :)

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Do we have a love connection here or what??? :love::p

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Originally posted by naive_2001

Do we have a love connection here or what??? :love::p

 

:laugh:

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Originally posted by naive_2001

Do we have a love connection here or what??? :love::p

 

I don't know - I'm open to anything, it's a question of what Merin is up for. :)

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Originally posted by iceisles

I don't know - I'm open to anything, it's a question of what Merin is up for. :)

 

:lmao:

 

Uh... :confused:

 

:o

 

Drinks.. going now for drinks!

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Originally posted by Merin2

:lmao:

 

Uh... :confused:

 

:o

 

Drinks.. going now for drinks!

 

Lol, good idea. I could use one myself. :laugh:

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ALL I CAN SAY IS YOU BETTER BE NICE TO MY FRIEND MERIN OR ELSE DAVE!!!!!!!!!

 

ok ok I think I am getting ahead of ourselves :p

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Originally posted by naive_2001

ALL I CAN SAY IS YOU BETTER BE NICE TO MY FRIEND MERIN OR ELSE DAVE!!!!!!!!!

 

ok ok I think I am getting ahead of ourselves :p

 

You have my word that I'll be nice. And yeah, we are getting ahead, but it's Saturday night, it's ok to have a little fun. :) In all honesty, you and her are incredibly nice and I appreciate your support through my current situation. It's truly nice when people take the time to show they care.

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Originally posted by naive_2001

ALL I CAN SAY IS YOU BETTER BE NICE TO MY FRIEND MERIN OR ELSE DAVE!!!!!!!!!

 

ok ok I think I am getting ahead of ourselves :p

 

:laugh: Good God Naive it's 3 a.m. drinks.. drinks... um I'm feeling better?

:lmao: I love ya gf!

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