jrc88 Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 So this girl and I have been seeing each other for about 5 month, we've been on dates quite a few times and I've slept over at her house a couple of times. We practically would contact each other either text or phone calls every day. We get along very well and both enjoy the company of each other. I've had came onto her quite strong from the beginning and have pressured her that's because I really like her and have always tried my ways to impress her. She have said to me one time she isnt ready for a relationship but at the same time I can feel she does like me too. About a week ago, I screwed up pretty much pissed her off one night, wont go too much in details so the next day I went and visit her at work thought it might be a good surprise and redeem myself from my mistake. Instead she went off at me, saying why are visiting me at work and you should have given me heads up. Then the next day she calls and said "lets be friends" I think you're overly romantic and we're not compatible and I'm not ready for a relationship anyway. I was lost, everything that we shared and built over the 5 month just went down the drain over that. We were even planning to go watch movies and have dinner just before this happened. So I haven't initiate contact for about over a week, what do I do now? Move on? continue to have no contact? or try to get her into my life? I really like this girl and I dont know what shes thinking. I feel like shes drop the bomb so quickly and everything built in the 5 month period meant nothing to her.
barky2 Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 You pressured her. Now do the complete opposite. No initiated contact. Barky
Chi townD Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 The freak out at work got my spidey senses tingling. I have a feeling you're not the only one she's dating. Time to move on, dude.
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