Ireallydontknow Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 I was doing fine and dandy, talking to friends on FB, listening to songs. Most of the day I didn't think of her and when I did I rejected the thought. I commented on a friends status and she chimed in on it too. It was nothing negative, or serious. I just feel like she wouldn't respond to it if she didn't see my name there. I had to go to my friends list and remove this guy because just seeing her name and picture made me go into anxiety mode. I almost clicked on her FB page several times. I'm still kind of shaking my leg really hard. I did it, but it wasn't easy. F*** I hate this. Why would she do that? Why wont she go away. I already have her taken off Facebook.
Soat Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 I was doing fine and dandy, talking to friends on FB, listening to songs. Most of the day I didn't think of her and when I did I rejected the thought. I commented on a friends status and she chimed in on it too. It was nothing negative, or serious. I just feel like she wouldn't respond to it if she didn't see my name there. I had to go to my friends list and remove this guy because just seeing her name and picture made me go into anxiety mode. I almost clicked on her FB page several times. I'm still kind of shaking my leg really hard. I did it, but it wasn't easy. F*** I hate this. Why would she do that? Why wont she go away. I already have her taken off Facebook. Did you block her on facebook as i think that will remove the common posts? Otherwise remove all friends in common (or if they are your friends ask them to defriend her) 2
barky2 Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 I was doing fine and dandy, talking to friends on FB, listening to songs. Most of the day I didn't think of her and when I did I rejected the thought. I commented on a friends status and she chimed in on it too. It was nothing negative, or serious. I just feel like she wouldn't respond to it if she didn't see my name there. I had to go to my friends list and remove this guy because just seeing her name and picture made me go into anxiety mode. I almost clicked on her FB page several times. I'm still kind of shaking my leg really hard. I did it, but it wasn't easy. F*** I hate this. Why would she do that? Why wont she go away. I already have her taken off Facebook. Do. Not. Do. It. Please don't. Who knows why she did it? To make you flip out like this? Maybe. To make it so she's on your mind? Maybe. Or did she not think anything of it? Maybe. That's why your suppose to stay off the PC for at least a month. Get off the PC now and go for a walk and clear your head. If you look you will be hurt and in a lot of pain. When the temptation of looking at my exs fb...I just thought to myself if see her announcing she was pregnant. Did it happen..no. Did it make me so I didn't look? Fkin A it did. Go for a walk. Clear your head. Barky 2
Author Ireallydontknow Posted August 22, 2013 Author Posted August 22, 2013 I keep her unblocked in case she really needed to tell me something. I was close to her grandma and she could pass away. Or if something happened to one of our kitties. I plan on getting the cats back at some point.
Soat Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 I keep her unblocked in case she really needed to tell me something. I was close to her grandma and she could pass away. Or if something happened to one of our kitties. I plan on getting the cats back at some point. So the ONLY way she can reach you is via facebook? So apparently she doesn't know how to email or text or use the telephone? Malarky. 3
barky2 Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 I keep her unblocked in case she really needed to tell me something. I was close to her grandma and she could pass away. Or if something happened to one of our kitties. I plan on getting the cats back at some point. I want to tell you something but you won't listen ...but to bad I'm going to say it anyway. YOUR HEALING AND WELL BEING IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING HERE. Not her, not her gma,and not a cat. YOU. Do something for you. Block the crap out of her so THIS won't happen again. But you won't. Barky 2
Simon Phoenix Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 I keep her unblocked in case she really needed to tell me something. I was close to her grandma and she could pass away. Or if something happened to one of our kitties. I plan on getting the cats back at some point. C'mon dude. This is bs and we know it. Don't go to her page, just block her. If she wants to get in touch with you, a Facebook block won't stop her. The fact that you got bent out of shape about a comment that likely means nothing and has no motive or anything to do with you shows that you needed to go NC a long time ago. So block her and do it now and stop making up lame excuses to keep in contact. 1
It-is-what-it-is. Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 You would be doing yourself a favor by blocking her. Facebook, cell, text mail, whatever... It will put you back in control, it will keep you from not wanting but hoping, then being disappointed with contact, or the lack of contact. Really. Ncncncncncncnc. Did I say nc? 1
JDPT Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 DO NOT do it! remember how terrible it feels afterwards? Do you want to go through that again? I was told this by a wise woman who I'll like to call mother a little while ago, she said something along the lines of this: "you are feeling the way you do because you are allowing it, she is not calling you, she is not texting you, she isn't sending you smoke signals to let you now how much she misses you...is she?" it all made sense at that moment. I realized that I am the one doing it to myself. I used to obsess over her and what she was doing, who she was with or who she was screwing when in reality none of that matters anymore. I got rid of any little thing that would lead to a thought of her as silly as it may be, it all went in the trash. Last week I saw a box of cookies my ex gave me to give my mother a while ago on the counter, I grabbed the damn box walked outside and tossed it in the trash, and it felt so good throwing that damn box of cookies in the trash. We all have our ups and downs be strong we are all here for you. 2
supaflyz Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 If I'm not to late then I recommend you to NOT DO IT. I did it 2 times man. It set me back for a day or two. Just block her already. 1
Author Ireallydontknow Posted August 22, 2013 Author Posted August 22, 2013 I never looked at it. I'm actually talking to an ex from 10 years ago! She helped me not to do it too. Exes helping exes with their exes! it's crazy. It's crazy because after this long I still feel a little bit of love for this girl. We were young when we broke up so I don't hold anything against her.
flitzanu Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 talking to your old ex is still irrelevant to blocking your current ex. this will happen over and over and you'll have new excuses why you want to look at her page and why you can't hlock her. do it now and save the grief. and quit thinking every single thing she does on facebook revolves around you bc it doesn't. 3
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