Grumpylilmoose Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 I was dumped in New Hampshire while the ex girlfriend and I were visiting my family, and she up and left me in New Hampshire, we still spoke almost nightly, I moved back to Oklahoma and we hung out every day, until Saturday when she decided she needed space, she will still talk to me on occasion, telling me that she loves me, and still misses me. We had a lot of issues, with me self medicating, and smoking and past behavior on my part, I honestly feel that she still loves me, and wants things to work,out, but doesn't want to, give me the chance to hurt her again. Any advice?
Soat Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 I was dumped in New Hampshire while the ex girlfriend and I were visiting my family, and she up and left me in New Hampshire, we still spoke almost nightly, I moved back to Oklahoma and we hung out every day, until Saturday when she decided she needed space, she will still talk to me on occasion, telling me that she loves me, and still misses me. We had a lot of issues, with me self medicating, and smoking and past behavior on my part, I honestly feel that she still loves me, and wants things to work,out, but doesn't want to, give me the chance to hurt her again. Any advice? Get some professional help if you're "self medicating"
Author Grumpylilmoose Posted August 22, 2013 Author Posted August 22, 2013 I have been clean for 21 days from drinking and cigarettes. In the past year, I only had one Slip up and blew a few lines. I am studying and trying to get my life back on the right track. I just want to understand this whole situation...
Soat Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 I have been clean for 21 days from drinking and cigarettes. In the past year, I only had one Slip up and blew a few lines. I am studying and trying to get my life back on the right track. I just want to understand this whole situation... Isn't the first rule of addiction programs is to stay out of relationships while you're becoming sober?
Author Grumpylilmoose Posted August 22, 2013 Author Posted August 22, 2013 Isn't the first rule of addiction programs is to stay out of relationships while you're becoming sober? Yes, though I feel like that is about new relationships, not old / exsisting ones...
Author Grumpylilmoose Posted August 22, 2013 Author Posted August 22, 2013 We did converse today, it seems as though there was a pretty big misunderstanding.. She thought that I was upset by her gradually taking space, when I was just trying to grasp what was going on through her mind.. We are meant to have a date night soon, and talk about everything.
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