UndercoverLover62 Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 First off I am a female who is currently serious relationship. I came here in seek of opinions from all of you! My boyfriend and I get along extremely well, were best friends. My concern is that he is very narcissistic (he doesn't seem to think as him as one), and usually only cares about himself. It does bother me at times but I love him so much that it is not a deal breaker for me. He is also very forgetful which I mean I have my moments too. What concerns me is that he is smarter then me and he wont come out and say it but I know it bothers him that i'm not more involved in reading the news paper or watching the news etc. I enjoy browsing a certain website that is geared towards social news and entertainment, and listening to my mainstream music. Another thing that bothers him is that I don't really enjoy going into cities only because of where I was raised. I am not used to that type of environment and i'm extremely introverted and am very content in just staying in the towns around where I live. I mean i'm not unwilling to go into the cities but I won't go out of my way to go there for leisure. I know this isn't much of a question, but I was just wondering what other peoples thoughts were on this. Thanks UndercoverLover62
Phantom888 Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 How old are you guys? Sounds like you two are very different. What do you really have in common? I mean he sounds like a city snob, and you're a hometown sweet girl. I'm actually more like your guy (except I'm not a narcissist..hehehe). I dated a sweet girl from a smaller town, who wasn't into intellectual stuff. We really couldn't find anything in common. The relationship fell apart eventually because of this. So ask yourself, are your differences a deal breaker?
Author UndercoverLover62 Posted August 21, 2013 Author Posted August 21, 2013 We are both in under 30. We generally have the same personality (being funny and stuff),and upbringing, we both love the outdoors. The thing is we are different but we complement each other. He's the brains and i'm more of a I know how to fix things and I know how to do a lot more handy work then he does, i'm more aware of how people feel, I guess you could say that I care too much sometimes. I have such a big heart for the people I love that I would pretty much do anything for them, Him and I have had bumps in the road, but i mean who hasn't. But I've loved him since the start that I know relationships take work and i'm not going to bail just because the going gets rough. I like to think i'm the more responsible one in the relationship too.
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