Caitlin85 Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 Brand spanking new to this forum and looking forward to sharing and reading all the wonderful stories on here Although I don't have much dating experience myself as I tend to shy away from guys that I am interested in but hopefully that might change soon as mommy went out and got the number of the guy that I have liked for several years now. I have managed to scrape every last bit of my confidence together to send him a message and what started out to be awkward short messages ended in lengthy replies with lots of smileys and winking Off to my first question...He was engaged 18 months ago and broke it off with the girl, is it something I should be concerned about? Second question...Is piercings and tattoos a turn off for decent guys like him? I have a few and scared that he might dislike them and reject me. We are going on our first date this Friday and I am so nervous yet excited
Faith13/2 Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 Brand spanking new to this forum and looking forward to sharing and reading all the wonderful stories on here Although I don't have much dating experience myself as I tend to shy away from guys that I am interested in but hopefully that might change soon as mommy went out and got the number of the guy that I have liked for several years now. I have managed to scrape every last bit of my confidence together to send him a message and what started out to be awkward short messages ended in lengthy replies with lots of smileys and winking Off to my first question...He was engaged 18 months ago and broke it off with the girl, is it something I should be concerned about? Second question...Is piercings and tattoos a turn off for decent guys like him? I have a few and scared that he might dislike them and reject me. We are going on our first date this Friday and I am so nervous yet excited First question: If you feel it could be a concern, maybe you should find out a little more about that situation from him. Seeings how you just started talking I would take that slow though. Shouldn't be a concern until it becomes a problem. Second question: That all depends on the guy. Some "decent" men actually find it attractive. I happen to have a few tats and a couple of piercings, my fiance is tat free and has no piercings. You'll have to find out those things when you go on the date. Don't over analyze yourself, he's planned a date with you, I think that in itself means he's attracted. Just go from there.. Good luck! 1
StanMusial Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 The engagement might actually be a good sign. Maybe it means he wants to settle down. It may have broke off for any number of reasons. You can eventually find out. As far as the tatoos and whatnot it is hard to say. You will probably get less judgement from him on that matter than his folks. 2
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