jrh1524 Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 What are your thoughts on this? I've been on about 6 or 7 dates with a new girl I met. I last saw her Sunday night. We were supposed to do something this week and I've tried contacting here Monday and last night to set something up but no response. She hasn't responded since our date Sunday. Is this acceptable to go no contact with someone after 6 or 7 dates? Shouldn't I get an e-mail or something saying, "it's not you it's me" or some BS?
SugarLips72 Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 Probably. After that many it would be nice. I'm having a guy do this to me right now but I am ok with it because I realize I am really not that much into him anyways. He is pouting over a few things I have told him and now he has determined I am just not worth it. Oh well.
cici713 Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 It's happened to me quite a bit. It's the respectful thing to do instead of leaving someone hanging. But unfortunately it happens. You just have to move past it and realize they weren't mature enough to communicate the truth with you.
Author jrh1524 Posted August 21, 2013 Author Posted August 21, 2013 She just texted me. I'm going to wait 3 days to respond back, lol. Don't accuse me of NOT being petty!
CrystalCastles Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 She just texted me. I'm going to wait 3 days to respond back, lol. Don't accuse me of NOT being petty! Don't do that. It's childish. She probably has a legit reason as to why she didn't contact you. Stop freaking out just because she isn't glued to her phone. 4
NJtoDC Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 You texted her on Monday (at what time?) and she replied Wed. Is that an unreasonable turn around time? If it's not reasonable, why play a game and wait to reply? Treat her the way you wish to be treated. Pick up the phone and call her. See what she's been up to. Maybe you'll find out why she was busy. 2
AmazingLoveDoes Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 Just be the bigger person, and like NJtoDC said treat her the way you wish to be treated. If she goes silent often then just let her go. Keep us posted
soccerrprp Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 She just texted me. I'm going to wait 3 days to respond back, lol. Don't accuse me of NOT being petty! jrh1524, This is a poor decision. I hope you are not generally this vindictive. If so, this bodes poorly for you in any meaningful relationship.
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