Kimmie80 Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 Read this today and thought it was interesting. It's a different perspective on break ups. Hope you all can take something from it We all have places we cannot be open about for different reasons. Like in a break up each person cannot always say everything that happened, why, etc. However, in science it is said that energy is neither created nor destroyed. Thus it exist, and changes shape or acts different. But it exist. You may not be able to see into his mind or heart, but the energy you put toward him exist. It will never be destroyed. Time will distract him from it, but it is stored away somewhere. A song, or a place you two were at, may recall it. But the brain learns how to protect a person, so they can move on at some point, and keeps that energy more tucked away, but never forgotten. Otherwise, more of us would be walking around outside in circles, due to mental decline. Because we could not sort, process, or store information in healthy ways to function normally. So you may not see on the inside of his brain, but your energy is in there. Guest11, we all have places we cannot be open about for different reasons. Like in a break up each person cannot always say everything that happened, why, etc. However, in science it is said that energy is neither created nor destroyed. Thus it exist, and changes shape or acts different. But it exist. You may not be able to see into his mind or heart, but the energy you put toward him exist. It will never be destroyed. Time will distract him from it, but it is stored away somewhere. A song, or a place you two were at, may recall it. But the brain learns how to protect a person, so they can move on at some point, and keeps that energy more tucked away, but never forgotten. Otherwise, more of us would be walking around outside in circles, due to mental decline. Because we could not sort, process, or store information in healthy ways to function normally. Also, the Japanese talk about the ying and yang philosophy, which says for every action there is a reaction. So he may not show you, but he has been affected by your actions and has his reactions that are positive. He can't show you, for his own reasons. This makes me think of how God designed us to fit with one individual for marriage. But when we date seriously, and we are with more than one individual over time; their experiences and dislikes about us, and our feelings over the loss of the relationship really affects us long term. Some psychologist believe that with each relationship we move through we loose more of our self esteem. Interesting, right? It's the comparisons and the not measuring up and the rejections. See I think we were not made to be compared to in a relationship, but this happens by being in a few relationships. When we leave a relationship we know someone else will take our place and maybe get more than we did. We worry over this. Or we see the person looking happier which makes us feel less valuable. But different people bring out different things in someone, and bring different things into the relationship. If we learn to be friends first and get to know each other before making a commitment, and find there is not enough compatibility, we can stop. Then your not as devastated, since you didn't give the person your very personal and intimate emotions or your physical intimacy. It won't hurt as much to see them with someone else, since you did not give up the core or essence of yourself. You are unique and special there is no one else like you! Don't let a failed relationship water that down. God created you special out of 7 billion people.Try not to compare yourself to the next woman. Otherwise, more of us would be walking around outside in circles, due to mental decline. Because we could not sort, process, or store information in healthy ways to function normally.
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