MarkV Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 Hi guys,me and my girl of 8 months broke up just over a month ago because of her insecurities and jealously over trivial stuff. We spoke briefly for the first two weeks then after that I decided to go nc. In the two weeks of nc she has txt me saying she misses me and that everything reminds me of her,she then called me Saturday night from a music festival when beyonce was on stage and started singing 'our' song. It was tough both times I heard from her as I'm still in love with the girl but both times I was polite but didnt get into a conversation as it hurts. Today has been the toughest day so far (for no direct reason) iv missed her like crazy. We've had disagreements before but this is the longest we have gone without seeing each other etc. I just want to hold her again etc but everybody has been saying 'do not contact her as she will know you are chasing her etc etc' i did chase previously in the relationship before and I feel bad for that now looking back. I know she misses me too hence the text and late night call last week (these were two days apart). How do I get through tonight without contacting her? I want to stay strong as iv don't well so far,do you think she will contact me again? We were crazy about each other but she had issues with me having female friends,colleagues and had been previously hurt by idiots so during our relationship she would look for holes in my explanations and question me on things which made me uncomfortable and put on the spot. Help?
Chi townD Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 Hi guys,me and my girl of 8 months broke up just over a month ago because of her insecurities and jealously over trivial stuff. We spoke briefly for the first two weeks then after that I decided to go nc. In the two weeks of nc she has txt me saying she misses me and that everything reminds me of her,she then called me Saturday night from a music festival when beyonce was on stage and started singing 'our' song. It was tough both times I heard from her as I'm still in love with the girl but both times I was polite but didnt get into a conversation as it hurts. Today has been the toughest day so far (for no direct reason) iv missed her like crazy. We've had disagreements before but this is the longest we have gone without seeing each other etc. I just want to hold her again etc but everybody has been saying 'do not contact her as she will know you are chasing her etc etc' i did chase previously in the relationship before and I feel bad for that now looking back. I know she misses me too hence the text and late night call last week (these were two days apart). How do I get through tonight without contacting her? I want to stay strong as iv don't well so far,do you think she will contact me again? We were crazy about each other but she had issues with me having female friends,colleagues and had been previously hurt by idiots so during our relationship she would look for holes in my explanations and question me on things which made me uncomfortable and put on the spot. Help? Didn't you post about this? You thought it was in bad taste and you hung up on her? Please tell me you didn't contact her after this incident!! Dude, you are a crackhead. You are an alcoholic. You are a pothead. At least, that's how you have to look at yourself. Your Ex is an addiction. And you are trying to break that addiction. You are going through withdrawl symptoms that are NO DIFFERENT than crack, alcoholic potheads are going through. Losing weight, losing sleep, constantly thinking about the drug and one more way to get one more "hit"! Then, you'll be good. You're certain of it. So, you have to do the same treatment plan that addicts go through. Just get through the day without the drug. One day at a time. If you get through today; then, tomorrow you may feel differently. Just get through today. That's all you have to do.
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