KaReNine Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 (edited) At this time I'm beyond pissed off and so is my bf. I told him about it because I would expect the same if his mother was like that. She used to be ok with him until he said about not liking studying. At least he has a stable job and has been raised to supervisor level. But ever since I lost my virginity a few weeks ago (duhhh... I'm 18 years old already and don't know how she found out about that anyway), she's been getting worse and now she has to involve her friends in her dislike towards him. I understand she may not like him but what saying do her friends have in our relationship and why do they have to know about it? It's none of their damn business. My relationship with my mother isn't too good now and I'm thinking of moving out. Edited August 21, 2013 by KaReNine
Radu Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 You have to provide more info than this. He doesn't like studying, but what is his level, HS graduate or not ? What are his plans in life ? Her reaction is probably because she sees some form of danger in your future. Now about how this all happened with her friends. Was she trying to get some perspective, or did she gang up on you with her friends ? There's a major difference between the two. You might be better off describing what happened ... as emotionless as possible.
Author KaReNine Posted August 22, 2013 Author Posted August 22, 2013 He is a HS graduate and supervisor at a supermarket but is planning to go to a computer institute too. My mother is being too judgement just because he doesn't want to study at a University like what I'm doing now. And that whole virginity thing is driving her more nuts too. She can't get over it that I'm not a little girl no more. She has told her friends how my bf is a loser that took my virginity and how he isn't going to prosper in life, how he'll never be at her standards, the fact that he doesn't drive, etc. He did not took my virginity; we did it because I wanted it, because I was ready. I accept him like that and know he wants to prosper in life and he will get a car when he has the money. He is saving money too.
Author KaReNine Posted August 22, 2013 Author Posted August 22, 2013 Just because this is my first relationship, doesn't mean I don't know what I'm doing. I'm confident in what I want and we love each other.
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