calledm Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 My gf broke up with me 7 months ago. We were Both depressed because we were Both unemployed, but She found a Job as a waiter and started to develope feelings for a coworker. Since Then we have been NC or very LC, until One month ago She called me crying because She broke her computer. Since Then we have been seeing each other once a week (no more because our busy schedules, I found a Good job), and every time we see each other we kissed deeply but we don't get too close or have sex. She is still seeing this guy but She claims he is not her boyfriend. I don't know What to think. I don't know if She is testing how would be our relationship now that everything is different. Everything has changed, we laugh together, we feel very confortable and I can see there is chemistry between us. But maybe I'm Getting friend-zoned because time is running and we don't have sex. Should I play hard to get?? Should I give up?? Should I keep showing her everything could be different this time? Can he be a Rebounding if She is still kissing me? By the way, I'm 36, She is 40 and the other guy 28 years old. Thank you!!
barky2 Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 She has a "guy". Dude friend zone all the way. Cut that crap right now and run. Its so obvious reading a lot of threads, he is fulfilling her physical needs while your doing the emotional part. Hense the " little kisses". She does just enough to keep you around. If your OK with that then have at it. Me personally, I have a pair...and I wouldn't stand for it. Either should you. But I don't think ull stop. You need to heal, move on, and find someone who wants you 100% and not half of you....not even half...she only wants 10% of you Get gone asap. Barky.
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