Dumped85 Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 Its Been almost 2and a half months since she left, and I'm so depressed.Had it half of my life. I feel like just giving up on everything and just hibernate from the world at home. I feel I have no reason to continue with any responsibility. I may not trust myself with anyone again. Im so heart broken, so miserable and hard on myself. I feel like it could have been avoided. Has anyone else felt like this and over come it
WonderKid Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 Feel the same way. I'm starting to break down but I am try to not hit rock bottom y'know?
Soat Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 It's just process. Slowly your "love" will disintegrate and you won't care.its just an addiction in your brain. 2
seekingpeaceinlove Posted August 22, 2013 Posted August 22, 2013 You're not alone. I'm 1.5 weeks since my bf broke up with me and I'm struggling. I'm better than a week ago but carrying around a heavy heart every day. I've been working out, meeting up with friends, walking a lot, writing, reading others' stories, eating healthy...and remaining NC but the sadness hasn't faded one bit. Actually it may have even gotten stronger. I was inconsolable the day of break up, numb the next 2 and then ok to angry to sad and hopeless the rest of the days. Up and down. I'm just doing everything I can to stay afloat and not get sucked into a depression. It doesn't feel right to go out but force yourself. You don't want to get out of bed, but do it. Make yourself get up and get on.... And eventually we'll start to feel normal and then good again. You're not alone.
StellaChic Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 It will get better--I've been there! I know that it doesn't seem that way--but one day you'll shake your head (at the least) about this time in your life. I was so miserable back then and now I'm happy and in a great relationship! So, in the meantime, GET SOME EXERCISE< If you don't already--take up walking every day for an hour. Also join a meetup.com group and/or hang out with some good friends. Go to church (it helped me)...and whatever you do--DONT CALL YOUR EX. Keep busy and THIS TOO, WILL PASS. :-) 1
hopefulfaerie Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 I know how you feel. It's absolutely horrid!!!! I have literally been on this site all day. It's been almost 3 months for me and I am so shattered! I feel like someone dumped concrete in my chest and it cracks with every single breath I take. Keep moving!!! It can only get better from here. Thank God for this site!
Brown-Eyez Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 Its Been almost 2and a half months since she left, and I'm so depressed.Had it half of my life. I feel like just giving up on everything and just hibernate from the world at home. I feel I have no reason to continue with any responsibility. I may not trust myself with anyone again. Im so heart broken, so miserable and hard on myself. I feel like it could have been avoided. Has anyone else felt like this and over come it Yeah, you might do that for a long long while, but eventually you will get bored with being depressed and lonely (we humans are social creatures after all) and will venture forth again...it's inevitable even the worse feelings eventually pass and we return to some type of calmer baseline. I did, though it took me many years after my last BU, and finally I decided, ok I'm ready to risk my heart again. Ha! The universe laughed at me, and within 4 months of putting myself back out on the dating scene, I got my heart broke!! Go figure! I have no clue now what to do
TrblinMN Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 I'm just over 5 months now and I felt that way but now I'm seeing some light at the end if the tunnel. There has been many bumps on the road and hasn't been easy. But when you start seeing that light, I do feel as if I am gaining some stength.
mea_M Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 Its Been almost 2and a half months since she left, and I'm so depressed.Had it half of my life. I feel like just giving up on everything and just hibernate from the world at home. I feel I have no reason to continue with any responsibility. I may not trust myself with anyone again. Im so heart broken, so miserable and hard on myself. I feel like it could have been avoided. Has anyone else felt like this and over come it Oh yes I most certainly have. I think its very normal for all of us to experience at least once in our life. The thing is, its true when they say time heals all wounds. As time goes by, memories fade. New things capture our attention. New things that are healthy for us. You will get there. Don't give up and don't lose hope. Best of luck to you. Mea:) 1
supaflyz Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 It's a normal process. I'm the type of person that rarely gives up, but I had to in this relationship. YOu have to accept that person won't come back.
iouaname Posted August 27, 2013 Posted August 27, 2013 It definitely does get better, you just have to take it one day at a time. I was an absolute wreck for a long time after my breakup. I remember feeling the exact same way - like I wanted to just give up, crawl into bed and never leave. Now I'm doing so much better, and am actually beginning to enjoy my life again. Just take it one day at a time, do little things for yourself that you enjoy, and eventually all of it will add up and you'll begin to feel much better. Hang in there! 1
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