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I just cant take the idea of she will sleep with someone or maybe she already did or doin it right now.

 

It has been 12 weeks since break up and 5 weeks NC. At our last talk she told me to get out of her life and i kept that promise. She is not soo beautiful but she is so intellectual and cute and smart and amazing at bed. Thats why i want her back.

 

One day she will make a guy so happy and he wont be me. It hurts a lot.

 

She is abroad and coming back 2 days later. I might give her a call. If she rejects again i wont call anymore. I just want to know if she see anyone, or still have feelings for me.

 

Damn those feelings.

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It won't do you any good. Whether she's with someone or not, you know she doesn't want to be with you. Don't do it to yourself. We just to have accept that the people that we once had relations with, will have relations with others. You don't miss anything that you can't get from someone else. "....intellectual and cute and smart and amazing at bed", these are all things you can find in a college girl that's high on life or even the next girl you meet in the streets. You haven't mentioned anything that's unique to her. You don't miss her specifically, you just miss what you knew.

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LISTEN to what she's telling you. She has clearly told you to "get out of her life". DO NOT CONTACT HER. It will only end badly for you and right now, you need to be gentle with yourself. I know it hurts and I know you feel like you're going crazy thinking about her. Trust me, I understand. Use LS to vent your anger, your sadness, whatever you're feeling.

 

You WILL get through this!

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halaluyaa Member

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You guys are right. It will only make me look worst.

 

Damn these feels. I was doin amazing tîll last friday. I went to a date and it didnt go too well and i started comparing her with my ex and i saw my ex in my dream and it killed me big time.

 

Just she is so pretty and she sings jazz. Whenever i hear a jazz song she comes to my mind. I really wonder if i will ever forget her and find a girl as good as her.

 

I wont write or call her.

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Soat Established Member

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Good. And if you say "she's not so beautiful but" IMHO that says a lot. How much is ego versus realizing you weren't super into her and mad she pushed you aside? :(

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Quit dating if you are only looking for your ex, it's a pretty good sign you aren't ready too. You might end up scaring away someone who really was a good match, you were just too blinded with "ex fever" to see it.

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I really just want sex. I dont want anything emotional. Also all my gfs chased after me till now, i want to go and get a girl i want.

 

This chick i am talking about asked me for hanging out agaîn for evening. I dont feel like meeting but i may.

 

Also yes when we look at beautiful term my ex was not so beautiful but so cute. I always fall in love with cute girls. And thats why i remember her. Also sex was amazing. I wish she wasnt that good. It hurts to think she will give pleasure to another guy.

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I really just want sex. I dont want anything emotional. Also all my gfs chased after me till now, i want to go and get a girl i want.

 

This chick i am talking about asked me for hanging out agaîn for evening. I dont feel like meeting but i may.

 

Also yes when we look at beautiful term my ex was not so beautiful but so cute. I always fall in love with cute girls. And thats why i remember her. Also sex was amazing. I wish she wasnt that good. It hurts to think she will give pleasure to another guy.

 

There is always someone better and worse in the sack. Go out and find her.

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I really just want sex. I dont want anything emotional. Also all my gfs chased after me till now, i want to go and get a girl i want.

 

This chick i am talking about asked me for hanging out agaîn for evening. I dont feel like meeting but i may.

 

Also yes when we look at beautiful term my ex was not so beautiful but so cute. I always fall in love with cute girls. And thats why i remember her. Also sex was amazing. I wish she wasnt that good. It hurts to think she will give pleasure to another guy.

 

Oh this is very common behavior. I too used to obsess over who my ex was screwing. My ex is gorgeous and in bed she did anything I wanted, she was so submissive which is something that drove me nuts. However, reality is that we are not broken up and she will screw or has already been screwing someone already, and what can I possibly do about it? absolutely nothing. I can only accept the fact that it's part of life and move on. Don't allow those obsessive thoughts consume you or compare her to other girls. I would also suggest to stop dating so prematurely as that will not help you heal. Again those allow those obsessive thoughts to linger and understand that they are nothing but detriment to you.

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