snowflakes88 Posted August 23, 2013 Posted August 23, 2013 OP, every week you post about wanting a different guy to move across the country to be with you. Every. Single. Week. Do you realize this is not normal behavior? And where do you expect these guys to be moving? Into your mother's house with you? You have no job, so how do you expect to take care of yourself if/when one of these many men moves to be with you? 4
hoping2heal Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 My point is this aren't people suppose to find their partner, move in with them and start their own families and lives? Not have the couple move into the parents house and live their lives there. You don't work, you won't (?) go to school. You live with your Mother because you cannot take care of yourself, therefore how are you about to start a life with someone else when you don't even have things in order to let your own boat sail? Again, I'm not picking on you or trying to insult you but you need to wake up and be realistic. You're in no positon to judge him living with his parents when you aren't even remotely independent yourself. You seem to think you can solve that by getting a man to take care of you but guess what? Once again, you're reliant on someone else to take care of you. 2
Geiss Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 You don't work, you won't (?) go to school. You live with your Mother because you cannot take care of yourself, therefore how are you about to start a life with someone else when you don't even have things in order to let your own boat sail? Again, I'm not picking on you or trying to insult you but you need to wake up and be realistic. You're in no positon to judge him living with his parents when you aren't even remotely independent yourself. You seem to think you can solve that by getting a man to take care of you but guess what? Once again, you're reliant on someone else to take care of you. I'd hate to see what you do when you do pick on someone and insult somebody.
hoping2heal Posted August 24, 2013 Posted August 24, 2013 I'd hate to see what you do when you do pick on someone and insult somebody. Geiss, Perhaps it would better serve the OP to have no one point out that her current state of mind will do nothing to help her attain what she is seeking. Except that it wouldn't because if it did the OP wouldn't be sitting where she is now. I realize I come across as blunt and abrasive at times but that doesn't mean it's because I'm trying to be hurtful. The OP is 26 years old and she doesn't need any more coddling, that is likely what has reinforced all of this thinking and behavior in the first place.
Author napy666 Posted August 25, 2013 Author Posted August 25, 2013 Well that one guy did not work out so it's his loss. I will find someone better and I think I have.
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