rambo3815 Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 We dated for 2 year and 4 month ago we finished because of repeated petty arguments. I tried all ways of getting her back but decided to try NC,lasted 2 weeks and text her. This resulted in her getting angry,telling me she doesnt love me anymore,doesnt miss or think about me and knows her life is not meant to be spent with me anymore...this hit me hard but made everything real,I left her alone from this point. 4 weeks later she texts saying she didnt mean them things but thought that's what I needed to hear to move on and hopes I have met someone special. I replied the next day and after a few texts she tells me she wants me back,im cautious about this and say we'd need to talk,she said it doesnt matter,that she tried and I didnt seem keen! Days passed and we agreed to be friends,she asked me to be honest if I met anyone etc but kept making clear we could never be together again,she repeated this over and over but constantly questionrd my where abouts,who I was with and if id met anyone. Few weeks passed and I met a girl in a club and took her number. Next day ex asked about my night out and I was honest with her about getting a number... SHE WENT CRAZY!!! Told me never to contact her again. I tried to talk to her but she just got nasty and told me to leave her. I never text that girl as I feel guilty (even though I tried to sort things with my ex and she didnt wanna know) and over a week later havnt heard from my ex nor text her,but I miss her! Why did she react like this? Do I stick to NC or get in touch? My heads allover!
barky2 Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 Ain't nobody got time for friends. She notices your slipping away...good. Now go nc and stay there. Barky 1
Misfortune Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 Do as you please, you guys aren't together and she doesn't own you. She could be getting her freak on for all you know. Feel guilty if you two are exclusive or at least working on reconciliation. Nothing is going there, have fun.
All_A_Dream Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 i would have to agree with barky. She is upset that you may be moving on. It is selfish of her to expect you to hang on.
lonegirl Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 A bit of immaturity from her side. That's all. We all deal with post break up situations differently, some are depressed, others are meeting new people etc. She doesn't own you, specially now you two are apart.
forgetmenot75 Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 Just read the tittle. Who cares of she hates you or not? You cannot be friends with a person you've f.u.c.k.e.d. move on, if she's angry, who cares
templeofmax Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 Just read the tittle. Who cares of she hates you or not? You cannot be friends with a person you've f.u.c.k.e.d. move on, if she's angry, who cares Always telling it like it is!!
Simon Phoenix Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 You are just giving her what she wanted when she broke up with you. I wouldn't be phased by this. You are not in the wrong. She thought she could be a cake eater, but the bakery is closed.
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