Girlfriend broke up with me & now has a new boyfriend.

[FearingTEN]

I know that most people will reply to this and say MOVE ON or GET OVER HER. This girl is the girl of my dreams and every memory I have of her just makes me want her back more and more everyday . I cry every night about her and knowing that she is with another man tears me to pieces . I desperatly want her back .

 

Long story short : She broke up with me after 2 and a half years , and two weeks later she begins dating her crush . I cried and begged her back only to get cold responses like "Im in a happy relationship" or "Leave me alone" and my favorite (sarcasm) "I LOVE HIM" .

 

They have been dating for about 2 months now .

 

I love her so much . I am not sure with this a rebound or not but whatever it is , I want her back.

 

Any tips? I love this girl so much so please no "move on" replies . Also , is is POSSIBLE that this guy is a rebound?

[damien201]

You just have to leave her alone man. You might have already blown your chances by trying to talk to her early on.

[Misfortune]

She can still be the girl of your dreams, just go to sleep.

 

You really can't do anything when people are "in love" except giving people their space when you've been dumped. You don't have to move on but, giving her space would be a good start; let the infatuation high die down. He could be her rebound or he could be or husband.

[HTS1977]

FearingTen...grab a paddle, help me get to shore on this boat we are both in together....we feel like we are sinking...we must grab a lifevest we feel is contact with our ex...we really need to look onto the horizon and pull ourselves up instead.

 

I was with my ex for 4 years, we have a 2yr old daughter, 3 weeks ago we had a blowup when she was gone for a night supposedly 45miles away staying at her moms, yet her cell phone shows she was in town the whole night. She then left 2 days later, saying we are done because of my issues...

 

in reality, I find out she is back with the guy she cheated on her ex husband with, who cheated on her so she left him (which is when I met her )...now she wont give me a chance to fix things cuz she is with this loser and I find out tonight I cant see my daughter cuz he is at my house motorcycle parked in my driveway and everything

[Rick1]

He's a rebound. It's simple.

 

Cut off ALL communication with her, and DO NOT contact her AT ALL. She will soon start to wonder why you haven't came after her anymore and she'll suspect you moved on and start investigating. Eventually she will come after you. The trick to this is to better yourself in the meantime. The only way to win your ex back is by re-actracting them.

[jesse93]

i hate to break it to you man, but it seems like she fell for this other man and it seems like she doesn't care for how you feel anymore, she must have been talking to him while you two were dating and she fell for him and lost feelings for you i wont tell you to move on but the best thing you can do at this point is go NC, dont go NC to try and get her attention and get her to text you but go NC and have a small amount of hope that she will one day contact you and in the mean time try and better yourself show her what she missed out on.

[alexjames88]

BACK OFF and LEAVE HER ALONE and try again when she is single. Never, ever knowingly contact them or speak to them when they are in new relationships unless you had a healthy dialogue as only friends before she met the new partner.

 

If you had a healthy dialogue of friends before she met the new partner he may dislike this. This means he will try for her to get rid of you. She would probably think her new partner would be ridiculous for asking this and she may see you in a better light.

 

But this is IF you had been friends before she met the new guy. I don't think you were. You were just an EX that had not become friends post break up. So leave it alone until she is single. Could be weeks, months or years.