He still has my stuff but I already broke NC once, should I break it again?

[headinthecloud]

It was short relationship, 6 months, and we broke up almost 2 months ago. We weren't a good match from the beginning but we wanted to try and make it work, plus - I was in love with him. After 6 weeks we agreed to be exclusive and made future plans together - everything was great. I really thought he was the one. Then, 3 1/2 months in he stopped making plans. When I told him I wasn't happy in the relationship and suggested that we BU he told me he didn't want to break up. I loved him so I rationalized his behavior and stayed.

 

Eventually, the inevitable happen 2 1/2 months later and we BU. I pushed him to make a decision I knew he didn't want (and neither did I for that matter) and he finally told me that we should move on. To be honest I was relieved at first. I felt free. But, also really sad because we talked everyday. I started to really miss him but not a peep from him. I thought for sure he would reach out - but nada, not a drunken text or email, nothing. I was NC for the first 4wks but then had to reach out to him about returning my stuff. He replied and told me he would send my stuff to me but also said he was having a rough time. He didn't give any details so I don't know what he meant by "rough time". I didn't respond to his text until the next day and my reply was nonchalant and unemotional. Well, it's been almost 2 weeks and I still haven't heard from from him...and I still don't have my stuff!!! My stuff is replaceable, I'll make due, but it sucks because I thought we ended amicably. He was the one who wanted to move on. Should I break NC again or just let it be? Do you think he's mad or has he just moved on? I think he's just moved on but wanted to get your thoughts.

[templeofmax]

If you are not good for each other, then, just ask for your things back and thats that!