Is my ex in a REBOUND relationship? Do I still have a chance of winning her back?

[FearingTEN]

My girlfriend of 2 and a half years broke up with me via text 2 months ago (July 19). We are both 18.

 

Before I begin my story, I must include that the guy she hooked up with has been her crush ON & OFF for a year.

 

Anywase, 2 weeks after she broke up with me, I discovered that she and this guy that I hated so much began dating. They have been dating since July 1.

 

I did everything wrong by begging, pleading and crying to get her back. It wasn't until I researched to find out that none of these tactics work at all.

 

 

Everytime I beg her to come back, she tells me how much she LOVES her boyfriend and that she hasn't been in an argument at all with him. She says that she is happy with him. She told me that she made out with him on the first date. I feel like that she just says this to back me off. I don't know.

 

She tells me to move on and get over her and that there is NO CHANCE of winning her back no matter what I do.

 

Is she in a rebound? Will she ever come back? Is it normal for a girl on the rebound to be this commited? And most importantly, what can I do to get her back? I love this girl to death and it kills me so much to know that she is not with me anymore. Please help me.

[headinthecloud]

Why would you beg for someone to be with you? You deserve someone who sees all the great qualities you have. Let her go. She's made it clear, there's no chance. It sounds like it was over a year ago, it's not a rebound. Go no contact (NC) - be strong.

[Ireallydontknow]

Know what I see here? A girl trying to hurt you. Know what else I see here? A man with no dignity left. You can't "win" anything back, this isn't a game.

 

Kick her to the curb. Rebound or not, it doesn't matter.

[Chi townD]

I agree with the others. When a girl goes out of her way to purposely hurt you, then it's time to move on.

 

She's in the honeymoon phase of her new relationship. Therefore, her new man can do no wrong in her eyes. He's perfect for her. Therefore, you can't win.

 

So, you need to delete her completely from your life. You need to block her on facebook. She has no problem telling you that she's hooking up with this guy (and yes! she is!) she'll have no problem posting sapping stuff about him and posting pics of them together regardless of how you feel.

 

Do not call her, text her or email her. If she reaches out to you, you need to ignore her. And she might reach out to you after a while. She said some pretty hurtful things to you. The one thing about most women, they can't stand the fact that there might be someone on this planet that hates them or doesn't think that they are a nice person. So, she may contact you after a while and after she discovers that you've blocked her on FB for no other reason other to see where your head is at. To see if you actually hate her. Once she realizes that you're okay, you're back in the gutter and she will move on. Don't give her the satisfaction. Don't let her ease her guilt.

 

Time to heal and move on, dude. Your new life is starting now!