amtz Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 I know I asked this before but please give me more insight! For me NC has never been an issue till TODAY! She called it off because she saw some FB messages with a buddy of mine fooling around (ex.some random chick from the gym is hot) she assumed that I was getting laid with someone else and said good bye! I'm not going into detail but the past month was a living hell for both of us. So I assume she only used an excuse to call it off. My emotions are wrecked! Sleep is not a problem DREAMING IS A TOTAL DIFFERENT STORY. I'm a hard believer of NC but you see, today is her birthday. I wasn't invited to her b-day dinner but now I'm stuck with a high end Bond no. 9 perfume... To be honest I'm so damn hurt I don't want to see her or know about her since I know she has someone else but inside of me I want to give her this present. There is no way I'm going to drop it off personally I was thinking more of dropping it of at her BF house. At this point any word of advice would be awesome we were together my past birthday and she did give me a nice watch. I feel that I owe it to her as a sing of respect that she gave me a present, but I don't want to make a fool out of me as I KNOW ITS OVER. Family members and close friends that think if I do send her the gift I will sky rocket her ego and would make me look like sloopy second. Thanks! Stay strong
HTS1977 Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 just a word of caution...take that perfume back and get your $$$$$.... 3 days before me and my ex split up I bought her a $700 camera...when I got mad I took it when I was leaving felt bad a week later cuz I wanted things to work between us and gave it back to her thinking it would show her that I am willing to be a better person... needless to say im out $700 and sitting on the curb still....
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