briteeyes29 Posted November 9, 2004 Posted November 9, 2004 I need some help here. I have been with my boyfriend for 6mons we live together. THis is going to be quite long and I hope that I get some replies cause I don't know what to do about everything. Advice is greatly needed and appreciated. About a few mons ago my boyfriend told me I was talking in my sleep every night about someone name Dee. Which is my x boyfriend. He said that I was saying that I loved him and missed him. And there was one night he said that I must of had a sexual dream about Dee cause I kept saying how I wanted him to make love to me and that It felt so good and how he satisfies me etc etc. Well I couldn't believe that I would say all that stuff in my sleep and clearly. Then a week later I bought a new purse and while I was cleaning the old one out I found a letter that Dee wrote to me when we were together. So I left the letter in there. Well my boyfriend was right there and he asked to see my purse, So he says to me as he is looking into it how did you fit all that in there. Then says oh you left something in there. So I took out the note ripped it up, he continues with well i hope that wasn't a layaway receipt i gave to you to hold. I said no its something that should of been tossed out along time ago, but i forgot it was in there. In my opinion I believe that he went into my purse long before and found that letter thought it was recent and though I was cheating on him. Then decide he was going to say i have been talking in my sleep about a person name dee etc etc so he could find out. So What do you think? The saga continues and gets worse. MY job was really stressing me out so he said to me leave I will take care of all the bills etc... So I listen to him. Well we end upo having money troubles. It came time to pay my car payment and car insurance. So I asked if he had the money to take care of them both. He told me yes write the checks out . Well a few days later I got calls that the checks bounced. So I went to him about it. He tells me that he just ound out that somebody got hold of his acct number and used it online at walmart and the bank was looking into to it. We had a joint acct and I have my own acct as well at the same bank. Well I got a loan from a fam member to take care of all my bills put it in my acct and paid everything to date. Money was left over then all of a sudden a transfer was taken from my acct I called the bank and they said that there was nothing from walmart. Next still having money trouble he had 5 buxs left for cigs comes home with 4 packs so I asked where he got the money fro 4 pks so he said he borrowed it from work. Well my mom comes to me and tells me that he borrowed 60 buxs from her boyfriend. So he has been lyin to me this whole time. Someone help me Please!!!
bluechocolate Posted November 9, 2004 Posted November 9, 2004 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?threadid=51203
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