Nwa_tna Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 I have been seeing a girl for awhile now. Since the beginning of the year. She is a hard nut to crack though. She doesnt have the easiest time expressing feelings to me. So that already makes things a little difficult. Well recently i found out about a guy friend of hers. I also found a drawing. She was drawing a picture for him. Now this annoys me because for one I am always putting creative energy into her, but she does not put creative energy into me. Yet she can put creative energy into this guy? It is all making me insecure. We have overcome some things and I think we are getting closer. However this is all making me analyze. Why she doesnt do cute things like this for me but will for this guy? I'm discouraged.
Skyraider829 Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 I have been seeing a girl for awhile now. Since the beginning of the year. She is a hard nut to crack though. She doesnt have the easiest time expressing feelings to me. So that already makes things a little difficult. Well recently i found out about a guy friend of hers. I also found a drawing. She was drawing a picture for him. Now this annoys me because for one I am always putting creative energy into her, but she does not put creative energy into me. Yet she can put creative energy into this guy? It is all making me insecure. We have overcome some things and I think we are getting closer. However this is all making me analyze. Why she doesnt do cute things like this for me but will for this guy? I'm discouraged. You're asking this question in a forum, so you are bound to get diverse opinions. My opinion is that if she isn't putting any creativity towards you even though you do all of that for her, back off. And if she wonders why you aren't then you can openly and non-defensively explain why. If she doesn't seem to care, then well - she just may not have it for you. You think you are getting closer? Or, do you know you are getting closer? You could just ask her straight-up too if you felt like it was appropriate to do so. 1
giblesp Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 Tell her exactly what you've said here and how you feel about it. If she wants you, she'll make the effort. 1
Author Nwa_tna Posted August 21, 2013 Author Posted August 21, 2013 Well we did talk about. We argued about the drawing and she apologized but she still gave him the drawing. And I cant like demand that she does something for me. That would defeat the whole point.
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