carolelombard Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 Hello,everyone.My problem is the typical teen drama basically,but I really could use some advice..so there's this boy I've had a crush on ever since I can remember,I think I truly loved him with all I had,but it never seemed like he felt the same so it's only normal that with time I let it all go..lately I feel like I'm starting to fall for his best friend,who is totally different than him in every way but ever since I started hanging out with him (we all run in the same gang) I got the feeling I've known him forever,like I could tell him everything,and we already have so much inside jokes etc we are really similar to each other and my best girlfriend from the crew has noticed that he's sending me some sexual jokes and that he has a thing for me too,besides my other two best friends who are from other town all think he likes me.It all sounds pretty cool -liking someone who likes you too,besides we are going to be in the same town this year and stuff..but Idk I feel like some of those easy girls for liking someone and then going straight to his best friend,and I'm afraid that if something happens between us I'm gonna see his friend everytime we touch etc and this would become a huge mess..(only complicated by the fact that he knows I liked his friend and a few months ago when my feelings were at its strongest he always used to make jokes about it ) .I mean one of my girlfriends tells me -come on girl go for it,it's not like you were maried to his best friend,it's all in the past now,but I don't know if we will have a fresh start that way.. because you see,it's taken me a lot of time and strenght to finally get over him,and i'm afraid these feelings will come back again and ruin everything what do you think I should do,should I be more flirty and open with the boy or should I just sit around and wait?thnks in advance
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