affairaddict Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 Was doing really really well. Now sitting here sobbing . Totally out the blue the sadness has arrived. I miss IT. Why am I backsliding after a month NC
Calcmag Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 Possibly because it's at the one month mark. And at the two month mark you may feel similar to how you do today, but in between tomorrow and then you'll be starting to heal. So often it really does feel like one step forward, and two back. Those markers along the way of the break up tend to stir up the feelings again. Sorry you're having a bad day.
Author affairaddict Posted August 20, 2013 Author Posted August 20, 2013 Its going to take me a long time to fully move on I think due to the few NC attempts and reconciliations .. I think I'm not emotionally NC meaning I've started to fantasise in my head again about meeting and sex.. I have no idea why I cannot rid myself of the obsessive thoughts lately.
ladydesigner Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 Was there anything that you didn't like about him? Something that turned you off? Start making a list of all the things you don't like about him and all the reasons why YOU are worth more than him and focus on those things Stay strong!
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