Amore9 Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 Hi everyone!! I had a great date with a guy I met on tinder over a week ago. We laughed lots and got on great and he kissed me goodbye and insisted on paying for the meal drinks etc. He text straight after saying he had a great time and he would love a repeat performance soon! Etc etc We text consistently for a few days, I was leaving it a while to reply and trying not to look too keen! He referred to meeting again a few times and then asked if I would like to go for dinner again. So we planned for a date 10 days later. We text a bit back and forth over the next couple of days then I didn't reply (there was nothing to reply to) and then a day or so later he text again asking how my weekend was and if 7.30pm the following Friday was an ok time for the date and he would pick me up. I replied saying are you sure you want to drive and was he having a nice weekend. He didn't reply and it's now 3 days later and I have heard nothing? Do I assume he has decided against seeing me again? And that the date on Friday is off? Many thanks for your help!
forgetmenot75 Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 Yeah, hes probably lost interest due to your lack of excitement.
almond Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 It doesn't sound to me like she was overly apathetic or displayed an off-putting "lack of excitement." OP, just send him a casual text, something like: "Hi, didn't hear back from you the other day. Just wondering if we're still doing dinner on (x date)?" You'll have your answer then either way. If he replies, all good. If he doesn't, then that's that. 1
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