HuntersDog Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 (edited) I went on a date with this girl. We seemed to connect. I kissed her and she accepted but was pretty reseved. Earlier in the night she had told that she just got of a serious LTR and also how extremely busy and transitional her life is right now. 30 minutes after they date she texted me saying she had a good time and sorry she was so reserved. Over the following two and a half weeks i made three attempts to go on another date. She would respond to my texts immediatly. We would have a good back and forth going on but when I asked her to hang out she would stress how incredibly busy she is right now but that she would keep in touch. By the 3rd time she told me we could hang out but only as friends since she is not really in a place to date any one right now. I told her I was looking for a date. She replied and said she would just have to text me when she wanted a date. I just let it go and focused on other ladies. About two weeks later I ran into her and she came up and gave me a hug. We talked for a good while and were both very real about our lives right now. I told her I know she is going through a lot but if the tides change give me a call. She told me she did not have my number any more due to phone trouble. I told her I would text so she had my #. I texted her saying it was good seeing her and to not be a stranger. She replied saying it was good seeing me too and she was sure we would run into each other soon. What now? I of course am focusing on my life doing the things I love and meeting other woman, but this girl really sparks my interest (a rare occurance). If she is being honest (and is not just not interested) about where she is at in life I don't see why I shouldn't keep a certain back and forth going to some extent just to stay in touch. Ball is kinda in her court though. How does one respect space but keep an attraction going? I don't want to be a chump who keeps on trying if she is just not interested but won't straight up tell me. Maybe call her in two or three weeks saying I am curious how she is doing? Send a text? Wait and see if I run into her? If I run into her do Iapproach her or just see if she approaches me? Any way, life is good, keeps on moving. Thanks for any input. Edited August 20, 2013 by HuntersDog
Author HuntersDog Posted August 20, 2013 Author Posted August 20, 2013 Yes it does appear that way but I have had times in the past where a woman seems uninterested only to pursue me months later when they are in a better place so I wouldn't rule out the possibility all together. Its' all good. I am starting to not care at all about the whole thing. Thanks for the reply though.
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