All4ever15 Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 I've liked this guy for about 6 years now but I only see him once a year (he's my friends out of state cousin). When we see each other we flirt a lot and two years ago we laid together and cuddled. But we never keep in tough when he goes home and we've never kissed but usually there are family members around. I don't know if he likes me but I think there is definitely an attraction there. We are both single right now and both looking to move next year to a similar area of the country and both want to settle down (although he may be a bit of a man whore lol). Anyway I just hung out w him this weekend and I'm thinking of texting him this: So here's the thing...as I'm sure you know I've liked you for awhile. I really enjoy seeing you for the short amount of time that I get to and i would really like to get to know you better. If you feel the same let me know, if not no big deal and I'm sure ill see you next year when I kick ur butt at more games Even if he doesn't like me back I only see him once a year so I feel like I don't have anything to lose. What do you guys think? Would u word it like that or even say anything at all?
Lani Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 I'd go with something simpler... like 'I want to see more of you' That should say pretty much all you need. If he asks you to elaborate, then you can go into your spiel, but I think start it a bit shorter. It's less intense straight up. 1
SantistaUSA Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 I'd go with something simpler... like 'I want to see more of you' That should say pretty much all you need. If he asks you to elaborate, then you can go into your spiel, but I think start it a bit shorter. It's less intense straight up. That's the way to do it! But let's say he says yes then what? How far are you guys from each other? LDR are very tough, I would try to avoid as much as possible.
lover4721 Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 No wonder why this girl I just met hadn't told me she liked me yet. I guess females don't show it or tell them. I don't know about the rest of the guys on here, but I am DYING for a text message like that from this one girl. Check my thread. Tell him you want to go out again and go somewhere nice and see if it works out. Sure tell him your feelings but also let him know you want to see him more.
Sovvixx Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 Deffo shorter! that's only 2 lines on a pc etc. on a phone that will be a mammoth text! 1
BeholdtheMan Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 Why not shoot for the moon? Have you seen the Steven Seagal movie Under Siege? Get boozed up and wear a thong bikni. Hide yourself in a hollow cake. Make sure the hollow cake is designed with breathing holes (you don't want to suffocate inside it). Mail the cake to your guy's house. When you're pretty sure he's right next to the cake, pop out of the cake and start dancing. Women need to start showing some creativity. I guarantee that your guy will appreciate your thought and effort. For your reference:
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