misskelly Posted November 9, 2004 Posted November 9, 2004 On average, how often do you bring up things to your significant other that are wrong with the relationship? I know women are more likely to want to have the "talk" but I'm interested in knowing what's too often.
Merin Posted November 9, 2004 Posted November 9, 2004 Whats TO OFTEN to have the "We need to talk" speech... Well honestly Pocky is right.. when you feel something is wrong and you need to communicate... How do you know IF maybe it's happening a little to often... When every time you say to your SO Baby.. and before you can get out the words "Are there any more cheetos?" they are looking at you with this face>>> followed with any one of these phrases... 1) What now? 2) I'm sorry, I was wrong *followed with this face * 3) In a minute baby I'm putting thumb tacs into my toe nails.. will just be a minute and I'll be right there... 4) Geez I said I love you can't we move on? Communication is important.. it's only when it turns more into nagging that I think it becomes an issue.
Dakini Posted November 9, 2004 Posted November 9, 2004 Originally posted by Merin2 When every time you say to your SO Baby.. and before you can get out the words "Are there any more cheetos?" they are looking at you with this face>>> followed with any one of these phrases... 1) What now? 2) I'm sorry, I was wrong *followed with this face * 3) In a minute baby I'm putting thumb tacs into my toe nails.. will just be a minute and I'll be right there... 4) Geez I said I love you can't we move on? Merin, you are SO RIGHT!!!!
Merin Posted November 9, 2004 Posted November 9, 2004 Originally posted by Dakini Merin, you are SO RIGHT!!!!
Naive Posted November 9, 2004 Posted November 9, 2004 My sister tell her fiance almost every day, "we have to talk". I think that after some time they stop taking you seriously. That "we need to talk" will stop having it's effect after some time, so ladies, don't use it a lot!!!
MassiveAtom Posted November 9, 2004 Posted November 9, 2004 I don't say "we need to talk" I just talk. I communicate freely with my Spouse. Trouble is she doesn't want to hear it. I think both spouses must always be open to discussion, and be patient enough to wait and see before starting in.. If it feels like too often, then something is VERY wrong for one or both of you, and it might be a signal that the relationship is damaged. Just my $.02. mA
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