sideshowblob Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 A bartender gave me her number and ended up coming over to my place after she got off work around 3am. We talked at my house for about 1.5 hrs. and then she left. I made a ridiculous move and called her a few minutes after she left joking that she left something at my place and that she should come back. She did not, and I laughed it off. I texted her the next night saying it was good talking and I made a joke about the call I made after she left. She did not respond to my text and then I made another bad move. I called her 3 days after I texted her and left a voicemail apologizing for making that call after she left. It has been 2 weeks now and she has not made any contact at all. I realize I made some bad moves and probably came across too strong. Yet, I like her and would like to see her again. Thoughts on the next move? Should there me no next move?
lastking Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 You will have to go to the bar a few times to make it work. She has to get confortable with you and this means investing in a few trips to the place she works. I was in the same situation with a stripper and ended up connecting after a few attempts
almond Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 To be honest, I think this ship has sailed. She came to your house, and spent a reasonable amount of time with you. I feel it is likely that she judged you based upon that, rather than a joke or phone call after the fact. If she liked you, the joke and following phone calls wouldn't have bothered her. In fact, she probably would have liked it. Move on - don't waste your time. 1
BradJacobs Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 If she liked you she probably would have stayed longer than 90 minutes the night that she came over. Move on. You had your chance and nothing happened.
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