final thing to say to ex

[johndoes]

We broke up because we just couldn't get along. we dated for a total of seven months. The night we broke up she told me that she was still in love with her ex from seven years ago. The next day she stopped by the house to pick her things up and found bobby pins in my room. Now I understand how that looks but I had no part in it whatsoever. My sister in law stayed there when I was gone for a couple of weeks and they were hers and I tried to tell her that but I think the damages was already done. Ever since that day she was really short and then all of a sudden she disappeared. I havent begged for her to come back and i havent talked to her for a little over a month. I don't want anything but to be sociable with her because we have a ton of mutual friends together and I know one day we will run into each other. I don't know if sh is with her ex now or not. But this is what I want to send

 

I don't want you to think that this is an attempt to try and get back together...that's not what this is about. I wanted to talk in person but you never returned my call. I know you think things went on but what I said was the truth and your going to believe me or not...that is just the way it will be. If you read this and you don't care or you get a good laugh then so be it...that's how it is. Hopefully one day we can become sociable and eventually friends again but only time will tell. I will always care for you and I truly do wish you nothing but the very best in life.

[Ireallydontknow]

Ok yeah, there is no such thing as a "final thing." You'll keep thinking of the next final thing, and the next. Just let it go man. It hurts but, just let it go. Let her go be with her ex and you work on you and upgrade your next gf.

[JDPT]

As stated, you will always have one last thing to tell your ex. It's a never ending cycle and round and round she goes, until one of you get the point across and backs off. Let things be no need to prolong the inevitable.