adidadi129 Posted August 19, 2013 Posted August 19, 2013 My dilema is this. I have a huge crush on this guy I met in Feb. Things have been good but could be better. Recently, I have been noticing that he flirts with other girls by leaving comments on their pictures. I for one, am a very jealous and selfish person and I do not like to share. I know I can not tell him what he can not or can do because I am not his gf but he has feelings for me but I just feel like he does not take me serious because well I don't drive. He does come and visit me once in a while but I recently got really upset at him because he was telling a girl to give him her number for a party. I guess all I want is for him to like me and commit but I dont want to be nagging at all the bad things he does because when I had a boyfriend a few months ago, I because very insecure and dont trust guys. He tried to talk to me yesterday but I did not answer. I just want him to take me serious and be with me but how can I do that without making him feel pressured. Should I text him and tell him why I am upset with him?
Knoxpwns Posted August 19, 2013 Posted August 19, 2013 My dilema is this. I have a huge crush on this guy I met in Feb. Things have been good but could be better. Recently, I have been noticing that he flirts with other girls by leaving comments on their pictures. I for one, am a very jealous and selfish person and I do not like to share. I know I can not tell him what he can not or can do because I am not his gf but he has feelings for me but I just feel like he does not take me serious because well I don't drive. He does come and visit me once in a while but I recently got really upset at him because he was telling a girl to give him her number for a party. I guess all I want is for him to like me and commit but I dont want to be nagging at all the bad things he does because when I had a boyfriend a few months ago, I because very insecure and dont trust guys. He tried to talk to me yesterday but I did not answer. I just want him to take me serious and be with me but how can I do that without making him feel pressured. Should I text him and tell him why I am upset with him? If you're not dating him, then you can't really tell him not to do it, thats absurd. Does he know you have feelings for him? are they reciprocated? if so and he still does it, then he either isn't interested in you, or he isn't interested in a commited relationship. Either way, I would tread lightly, if you already admit to being insecure and untrusting of guys, you are currently walking into a minefield.
aspiringuitarheroine Posted August 19, 2013 Posted August 19, 2013 *giggle* Really? You're not his gf, and it doesn't sound like he's really aware of how you feel. Ask him out. Tell him you like him and want to date him. Otherwise, get over the flirting. He's single, and allowed.
Author adidadi129 Posted August 19, 2013 Author Posted August 19, 2013 He does know how I feel but I think he just takes advantage of the fact that I dont really go out like party and stuff. I know I can not tell him anything neither am I trying to control his life. So do you think I should text him back or wait>
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