Ambie Posted November 8, 2004 Posted November 8, 2004 I find it hard to understand how a guy with no job (unless school's considered a job) and no "prior engagements", nothing at all to do can be so freaking busy... I love my boyfriend and he loves me, we've been together two years and I wonder if I'm boring. I've talked about this here before but i feel sometimes like i'm not important. I'm not the kind of girl who has to be bought, thats not an issue at all, but some sort of attention would be nice. I know guys have friends but they DONT have to come over every ****ing day and I personally DO have to have a phone call...and today i havent gotten one. And even when I do get one, he doesnt care about what I have to say, either that or it's a fight and I was in a good mood today until i got completely brushed off once i got home because he didnt call and i got online and said hi, because i was like "oh, so you ARE home and you ARE capable of having called me", ya know, but he didnt answer. 10 minutes later he says hi back and then says his friend is ver again, 3rd day in a roll, and it wouldnt be so bad if i hadnt just gotten back from a trip all weekend during which we couldnt talk.\ His friend thats there all the time is the boyfriend of one of my friends and she and i ALWAYS get blown off and I'm really tired of it and she is too and it always gets made out to be that she and I are just bitchy...but I dont think so, do you? If so tell me what to do and if not then...tell me who you'd solve this problem.
tiki Posted November 9, 2004 Posted November 9, 2004 I say find someone that's into you. He's obviously not. Many of other guys out there will be, but this guy is obviously keeping you tied down. Good luck.
Weird Posted November 9, 2004 Posted November 9, 2004 so you say a guy doesnt have to see his friends every day but you NEED to have a guy call you every day? Selfish much? Would you like it if the guy said he NEEDs you to give him 5 blow jobs a day? While I do think he should show more interest in you I also think maybe you are coming off as being too selfish and he is ticked off with it. I would bitch at a girl if she was telling me she demanded I call her every day and she got pissed off that I was hanging with my friends. I dont like being told/pressured into doing something.
tiki Posted November 9, 2004 Posted November 9, 2004 Dude, they've been together for two years. He better be doing a little more than 'calling me' each day!
Naive Posted November 9, 2004 Posted November 9, 2004 Originally posted by tiki Dude, they've been together for two years. He better be doing a little more than 'calling me' each day! DITTO!!!!!!!!!
Author Ambie Posted November 9, 2004 Author Posted November 9, 2004 i think it's important to say that i do not demand phone calls from this guy. I dont demand anything, but, yes, I do have expectations because i will not be used, i will not be hugged up on, kissed on, and all that and not be talked to. That would be reallt pittiful. Also, even if i strait up DEMANDED a phone call, it would be quite different from demanding "5 blow jobs a day" in my opinion. Thanks to everyone who agrees that after a year of dating, expecting a phone call and a little attention isnt too bitchy or demanding. I feel like breaking up isnt really an option here though, i'm to attatched and i wouldnt know what to do with myself...all alone.
Weird Posted November 9, 2004 Posted November 9, 2004 sure sounds like you demand a call a day even if you dont outright say so. BTW I do think he should show you mroe attention IF the info you are giving us is how it goes down. I do hope also that you don't have issues that he hangs with his buddies. From the way you make it sound he isn't doing well with with the time blance of buddies and you and you have a right to feel upset about that. However, I hope you would feel the same way if all he was doing was spending time with you meaning I hope you would feel he should be spending time with his buddies and not lose those friendships.
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