GettingOver Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 Find someone better. Very good advice. Actually the only possible I guess. At least to me. If you find someone not better but just someone - it will be a rebound and fooling yourself. If you find someone better - then you are healed. I hope this will happen to me one day as I just cannot throw my eMM out of my head, heart, life.
GettingOver Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 We were together at one point for a while. At the time, I was married and he was living with someone. He walked away then without a word, just disappeared. I never got over him. I found him on Facebook two years ago after having no contact for 17 years. He told me after we got together this time that he loved me back then and only left to keep from breaking up my family for my sons sake. He said that he'd loved me all those years we were apart too and that he'd thought about me often. Of course, I don't believe a word of it now. Oh, I am sorry to hear that. This is really sad. So you have been thinking of him all these 17 years? What happened to your marriage?
hermione08 Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 Can I suggest this is possibly a bit untrue? I too had an ex come back to me after 15 years and it felt like I’d always thought about him. But in fact I had not. It’s just that I had never achieved closure, so it felt like I had always thought of him. He said the same to me (that he’d never forgotten me, that I was his only true love), but I think men would say anything to get you into bed. Unfortunately I was very naïve and believed him and you have done the same. We’ll survive, because we are better than them.
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