Kozmo Posted August 19, 2013 Posted August 19, 2013 so on my last thread i talked about my ex getting engaged 2 months after our breakup. she posted a picture online of her and her ring and everyone was congratulating her. i found out through a mutual friend. i've had no contact with her and this came to a shock. i called her up to see if it was true, and she said it was a joke, relax. i didn't think it was funny. she went on to delete all pictures of me and her and it made me think it was true. she said i have trust issues, and i'm tripping. but the thing is she blocked me everywhere, we don't talk, and the picture seemed legit to other ppl too. she told me i should be happy for her, and i need to learn to brush things off. so the last thing i told her was, "i love you dearly, and i should be happy even if i can't be in your life anymore." she responded "Thank you for understanding and the same goes for you. I will support and be happy for you with your future endeavors." i don't know why she is playing games like that... i felt disrespected..
iouaname Posted August 19, 2013 Posted August 19, 2013 When a friend of mine broke up with her boyfriend, he pretended that he got another girl pregnant. People do bizarre things, I don't even think there are explanations...
templeofmax Posted August 19, 2013 Posted August 19, 2013 Sometimes I am amazed at the level of immaturity of people all around. NC!!!!! Just go NC!!! She won't support you like she says, its BS!!! Go no contact...why would you want to be with someone so immature and ridiculous. 1
JDPT Posted August 19, 2013 Posted August 19, 2013 She is not playing games I view it as her simply not caring AT ALL what you or other people think or feel. She is WAY past this relationship, in an island enjoying herself. I can see the very diplomatic response she gave you. The only game you are playing is with yourself. Move forward and play no mind to her antics as they are all irrelevant to you. 1
xanitus Posted August 19, 2013 Posted August 19, 2013 well one of my ex's pretended she was getting married. She even said it to me after 3 months NC. It was obviously not true and just to get my attention because she wanted to make me jealous and get my attention after i had been ignoring her for so long. It really hit a nerve but I calmed down after realising what she was doing. The same might not be true for you though, like someone said this is just a "im careless about what anyone thinks" phase
templeofmax Posted August 19, 2013 Posted August 19, 2013 well one of my ex's pretended she was getting married. She even said it to me after 3 months NC. It was obviously not true and just to get my attention because she wanted to make me jealous and get my attention after i had been ignoring her for so long. It really hit a nerve but I calmed down after realising what she was doing. The same might not be true for you though, like someone said this is just a "im careless about what anyone thinks" phase Were you the dumper?
reddragon588 Posted August 19, 2013 Posted August 19, 2013 Isn't this the girl that threatened to get the cops involved if you didn't stop contacting her? You need to stop tripping over her, she does not seem to be worth the time and energy you have out into worrying over her.
Author Kozmo Posted August 19, 2013 Author Posted August 19, 2013 Isn't this the girl that threatened to get the cops involved if you didn't stop contacting her? You need to stop tripping over her, she does not seem to be worth the time and energy you have out into worrying over her. wtf?! cops? never did she say that, nor did i mention it.
reddragon588 Posted August 20, 2013 Posted August 20, 2013 wtf?! cops? never did she say that, nor did i mention it. Hmm. Maybe I was thinking of someone else. Regardless, I would suggest moving on and re-instituting NC. This girl seems like she is not worth the effort.
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