dowza Posted August 19, 2013 Posted August 19, 2013 My boyfriend and I of 2 years were so, so in love. Literally the two years we had together felt like a dream. We never argued and spent almost all of our time together. He has helped me through my parents very painful break up and having a hard time at college. He has, to be honest, made me feel like life was worth living. But hes now gone to a college in another country (because of his parents) and is now like a ten hour flight away, and seven hours behind. This made it so hard for us to keep in contact, and eventually, after struggling for six months, and he facing huge problems with his mother becoming paralysed, we broke up. This was seven months ago now, and I never, for a single moment have stopped loving him, stopped caring for him or even begin to feel like i am over him. We still talk all the time, every day, but I have only been able to see him on about ten occasions as he now lives in another country. We never broke up on bad terms at all, and one of the times he was here we both just ended up crying about how sad we were, but ultimately it was just too painful when we couldn't skype etc, not knowing what each other was up to. We had always spoken about getting married, and when we broke up said to each other that it was just the end of the chapter, not the book. I have tried seeing other people, as has he, but have broken up with them now because it just wasn't the same. I just don't see if I will be even slightly able to break up with him. I really think this is it for me, that I've met my person now and I'm just not ever going to recover. What I'm confused about is whether or not I should try to. Do you think he still loves me too? We haven't explicitly said it to each other since about four months after the break up, so I don't know if he does. I just miss him so much. But I don't know if I'm doing the right thing being so into him - I guess the hope is that when he's done with college he'll move back to our country and I can be with him again. Or maybe I could join him (I'm done in one year, he's done in three). Should I try to move on?
lastking Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 it sounds like you guys loved each other and I can sense a connection. Have you tried writing to him at school? I mean not but email but snail mail....foreign students usually like that and its a good step towards getting your man back. Good luck
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