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9yrs and a kid is it really over ??


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For starters me and my ex were on and off for about 9years we both were and I believe still our madly in love I was the want to mess up during our in and off again relationship but I want her back she's been my support system for about a decade . We got into a fight about her taking to a gym to play ball at from 9pm to 11pm and I didn't feel comfortable with her doing that but have her the address if she didn't believe me we or into a big fight and without thinking I took my stuff and left out the house we have a 5 year old son that we both care deeply about hit I have never walked out on her and I think it really hurt her I want her back and willing to do whater it take it hurts alot I'm unable to sleep eat only think I can do is drink fluids she is the love of my life and I want her back but I also want to cope she said she got a dude after one week.....but we never talked things out to see if our relationship could be salvaged she told me maybe like a year from now we would probably be back together but I don't think we need a year. I need help I find myself texting her expressing my love for her to no reply the only thing she want to talk about is our son how can I get her back? what should I do? She doesn't want me to come around our apt I'm just a lost soul right and i really need help and advice as to what I should do and what's possibly going on in her head as to her just hopping into a relationship that fast

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Being at a gym to play ball from 9pm to 11pm, having a kid and a day job im guessing this was the best open time...Is there a reason why you wouldn't be okay with that? I don't understand.

 

You walked out, over a very silly thing!

 

Stop Contact with her, esp if she's seeing another guy already make some kind of plan to see your child, if you already told her you want her back she knows give her space she may come back.

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