cowboysmavs Posted August 19, 2013 Posted August 19, 2013 Okay first let me say I think I'm just pretty bad about the getting serious thing. I can meet women, sleep with them, whatever, but once feelings get involved I'm lost. I've been dating this girl for about 4 months and developed serious feelings for her. She was the first to start the pet names baby, etc. and the first to call me her bf. Well one morning I woke we were kissing and stuff and I told her I loved her. Her response was "really" lol and she said it was more than like for her but not the love word. The problem is every since that morning things have changed. She's been short with me and just gives off this weird negative energy. She still calls and texts but not with the same frequency and response. Now I did not expect to hear it back it is just what I felt. Do you guys think it is now destined for failure? Women how do I get her to calm down and relax? I wasn't asking for her hand marriage. I just want things to be like they were before that morning. I'm 30 and she's 24 by the way.
Miss_raptor Posted August 19, 2013 Posted August 19, 2013 Give her some time. That's pretty big news. If she's still talking to you, that's a good sign. Act like everything is normal and things should smooth over. It can feel awkward to know someone loves you, even when you're not ready to reciprocate that sentiment. If things don't smooth over in a week or so, bring it up.
Author cowboysmavs Posted August 19, 2013 Author Posted August 19, 2013 So you're saying there's a chance. Haha jk. I just want her to relax but I'm not sure if that's possible. I'm going to see her tonight so we'll see how things go. I haven't brought it up or said anything since. But on the phone she's been real feisty. We haven't had any arguments but the way she talks to me is different. Has anyone told you that and you were not ready but it worked out?
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