Do almost all exs, whether it be the dumper/person getting dumped,male or female have

[jcweik]

Does everyone have the ex sex crave atleast once?

[savethedrama4allama]

Uh, nope. I have had some exes that I had absolutely zero desire for post-breakup. Of course, that was one of the reasons for the breakup in the first place.

[jcweik]

Long relationships?

 

I'm just thinking to my self. If my ex (whom i was her first love) thinks about having sex with me sometimes, then that makes me feel better for some reason. She will call me out of the blue in the middle of the night. I don't answer the phone though.

[savethedrama4allama]

Yeah, they were long relationships. But that really doesn't play a role. It has to do with how much chemistry we had left when we broke up. Did you have strong chemistry? Still having a lot of sex and a lot of fun? Then yes, she probably does miss it and think of you. But she's really the only one who knows.

[EnigmaXOXO]

H*ll Noooooooo!

 

If I had the tiniest spark left for them, I'd have never made them an "ex" in the first place.

 

As a matter of fact, just the thought of going back is absolutely repulsive.

 

Then again, maybe I've just never met anyone who was THAT good.

[Think too much]

I don't think everyone does but I do. I think about my last bf a lot. He sure did know what he was doing. I think the thoughts dwindle after time though.

[Weird]

IMO, anyone who bases a relationship (and hence a break-up) on sex has some serious issues and needs to grow up

[ltomlinson81]

My ex and I did not base our relationship on sex whatsoever. I loved being with him and after a few months of being broken-up, I did begin craving sex with him. I already posted about this, but he and I slept together this past weekend, and it was great. No strings, nothing to hold us back. It was wonderful. We are at a point where we could handle it, and I have heard that not everyone can, but I thoroughly enjoyed satisfying the craving!

 

So you are not at all alone on this one!

[jcweik]

I was not her first, but i was her first with alot of new sexual xp. I.e. she never did any wierd styles, or anything like that, just straight sex. I've also bettered my apperance. Being dumped does a number on you so i went to the gym and started doing some heavy lifting. 8 months and i look alot different.

 

 

 

And i'm not focusing it all on sex. I realy miss her right now, and to know that "maybe" she thinks about me sometimes for sex, makes me feel a little bit better. I mean, its been 8 months and i can not think past not being with her.

[ps123]

If Im the one that broke it off...usually not. If Im the one that got dumped...most of the time .