Ladyrascalz Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 (edited) Me and my bf have been together for 2 years. I'm his first and he claims, he really loves me. Recently I broke up with him. I felt like he didn't appreciate me, he took me for granted. I mean this guy, he'd curse me out call me b****. He even one day got mad at me and threw coffee on me. I was there for everything, when he had no job, was just a straight up bum. I tried to do everything to support and be there for him emotionally. I got no thank yous or gratitude. Anyway after the break up. Went a whole month NO CONTACT. Then he called and said he wanted to talk. We talked and he got me convinced that he really wanted to fix things. He said he missed me, loved me (regular I want you back sob story.) I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Took him back like a fool, after getting back with him, it's been a month now. I've been getting this feeling that he's cheating. He never calls, never texts. He talks to me every other day. I've tried to talk to him about it. He never gives an answer as to why there's no communication between us. He'd never do this before, ever. When were together previously. He always called, always checked in. So I took a look at his instagram and noticed this chick commenting saying stuff like oh he's mine, oh thats my cutie. I don't know I just have female intuition about it. Just saying all these things. I just I feel like I don't deserve this! I'm a med student and I have a lot going for me. So i changed my number and I don't want him contacting me. I wish I could just punch him, like hurt him because i'm hurting. I feel awful about it. Can I please have some advice, some comforting words. Something... Edited August 18, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
iouaname Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 That's very strong of you to cut of all contact like that and to do what's best for yourself. I wish I was able to be that strong! I think you had enough reason to be suspicious. I would have probably addressed it first, but you need to do what's right for you, and if that's how you choose to address it, then great.
kayjay85 Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 trust your gut instinct. I know its going to hurt and there are a lot of unanswered questions but really trust ur instinct. I cant believe he would beg for you back then still act like this. He doesnt deserve you. HIm not having not having a number to contact you will make him realise that your serious. keep it up i wish i was as strong as you.
Author Ladyrascalz Posted August 18, 2013 Author Posted August 18, 2013 That's very strong of you to cut of all contact like that and to do what's best for yourself. I wish I was able to be that strong! I think you had enough reason to be suspicious. I would have probably addressed it first, but you need to do what's right for you, and if that's how you choose to address it, then great. THANKS SO MUCH for responding . I appreciate it, I have addressed it. Several times asking, asking. Me and him have been down this road before. I just feel like it's crap to even be arguing with your bf over these issues. 1
Author Ladyrascalz Posted August 18, 2013 Author Posted August 18, 2013 trust your gut instinct. I know its going to hurt and there are a lot of unanswered questions but really trust ur instinct. I cant believe he would beg for you back then still act like this. He doesnt deserve you. HIm not having not having a number to contact you will make him realise that your serious. keep it up i wish i was as strong as you. thanks for the support. I really want to go through with this. I feel like I can't just say i want a good man for once I want to do something about it and not put up with someones trash!
iouaname Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 THANKS SO MUCH for responding . I appreciate it, I have addressed it. Several times asking, asking. Me and him have been down this road before. I just feel like it's crap to even be arguing with your bf over these issues. It is! You're a strong girl for not putting up with it.
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