MarkV Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 Hi everyone. Me and my ex of eight months have been separated for a month now. Iv gone nc for two weeks as we had time apart before and I was the one chasing to patch it up etc. Things were great for a while but she has always been insecure and constantly questioned my past and didnt like the fact that I have female friends. It came to boiling point and we broke up. Mutual breakup. It's been a tough two weeks for me to not speak to her as I love the girl but I had to do it for my own healing. Anyways,on Thursday eve she text me saying she misses me and that everything reminds her of me. Then last night she called me from v festival when beyonce was performing 'our' song at 11.30pm! She called me first and I hung up,then she text saying 'I thought you would like to hear it as its amazing' what does this contact mean as its puzzling me?She's the sort of girl who won't admit that she wants me back,she would expect me to do that but I'm all out of fight to chase her like last time. When we broke up I admitted my faults and what I was prepared to work on for our relationship. Do I stay no contact?what is she thinking?iv never been this blunt to her before. Is she hanging on in the hope of us getting back together?thanks
Nicoleiia Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 If you have no more fight left, then the relationship is over. So I would continue NC and not except any breadcrumbs from your ex. Sometimes its just time to move on.
JDPT Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 It means that she keeps having weak moments continuously and caves in. If you are truly done with the relationship remain strong and NC. Make this transition easier for you and inadvertently her by continuing to implement NC. 1
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