LME Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 My first kiss after my breakup over two months ago. I thought I'd feel guilty and weird. It was just with a guy i met while vacationing this past week, nothing serious. I didn't even think of my ex until the next day and then I was like woah that was my first kiss with someone new. It felt nice I guess this is moving on? A month ago the thought of being with someone new made me feel sick. There is hope people! Time heals
JDPT Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 I'm happy for you, seems like you are making good progress. I wish to also feel a strong attraction for a woman down the road like the way I did for my ex. I know it will take time with no way of speeding up the process.
templeofmax Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 (edited) Good for you. It means you are starting to really move on and see the light at the end. I went on a date 3 months post BU and all I could think about was my ex, and it has been like that for 4 months. I LOVE her and feel guilty even going out on dates, guilty about her and guilty about the date. I think the possibility of getting back together is there, and she is insecure, so I feel like trying to even go on casual dates will damage her more if we get to talk, even though she left me because of stupid fights. I must be THE ONLY person on earth to wants to go back to an insecure girlfriend who sometimes drove me nuts. Its such a weird feeling, loving someone like this and that person not believing it because of lack of self-worth. She is working on her issues, so its not like she is going to get someone else right now. Otherwise she is so pretty and sweet and humble. Its very frustrating. Edited August 18, 2013 by templeofmax
Author LME Posted August 19, 2013 Author Posted August 19, 2013 It will happen for both of you. Stay positive.
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