Yulichka93 Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 I feel like i'm not put first in my relationship. I do EVERYTHING in the world for this guy. I feel manipulated almost.. i start appologizing and feeling bad even when it's NOT my fault. For the most part, when i'm single i'm SOOOO strong and have high standards, know what i want and don't take anything less. But it seems like when i get into a relationship i let all that go out the window. I feel like i let the guy treat me how he wants..except i do fight back and stand up for myself at the time being, but later i'm just always the first one to come back to him, to call, to go visit him unexpectedly, etc. & i HATE it because i feel like he is not learning anything from me always running back. I know what i NEED to do, i just don't know what the first steps are to being strong and STAYING strong, not letting people walk all over me. I love this guy soooooo much, i don't want to leave, but i just feel like even if i wanted to, i CAN'T! i feel like i'll never find anyone as good... (i tend to always look at the good and positives about people, never the bad...) Please feel free to give me some advice, as i really do need it.
rivera89 Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 I know exactly how you are feeling and where you are coming from because I'm going through the same emotions as you. Listen, I can tell by looking at your profile pic that you are a beautiful person. I know that feeling of not being able to find someone as good him/her, but the fact is that if he is treating you bad, then you have to let him go and move on. There so many good guys out there that would feel so lucky of having a woman like you in their lives. You just have to take that leap of faith and BELIEVE that there is someone just as good if not better out there. We all deserve to be loved and treated well, we just cannot let fear get in our way! I really hope everything works out for the best with you.
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