Got it Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 Not to bait or be insulting at all. I have read so many OW saying MM cannot believe they are so lucky to have dated them. Because MM never thought they would have a chance to be with such a beautiful OW since she was out of his league. I have read where OW claim the wife is not as attractive. So many OW say the affair started because of "attraction". It seems the OW are usually more attractive and much younger than MM. I sometimes think it gives boost to OW to think they are the best the MM can get. But I wonder what is in it OW? A married man who most likely has financial baggage,kids,responsibilities,wife,has to sneak around and who sees you when he can. Also at times can be much older. So what is it that makes him so darned attractive, OW cannot help but get into the situation in the first place. The attraction must have been there initially/ So what is it? What does this MM have that most single men do not? I would like to imagine his charisma and charm were irresistible. I mean there has to have been something that is so exceptional, you are ok with putting up with the situation and the baggage that comes with this type of relationship. Perhaps he is so special you do not think you can do better. Yep pretty much. In all my years I have never attracted to someone like I was/am to him. It was the most physical feeling I have ever had and still have after all these years. I was in the affair for him, not to just be in an affair. I can't say what he has all other men don't have. He isn't perfect, he annoys me to no end at times, he can be a grump. But whatever it is, he is just different than all other men, and is absolutely amazing. But we loved with a love that was more than love, I and my Annabel Lee 1
Summer Breeze Posted August 21, 2013 Posted August 21, 2013 Not to bait or be insulting at all. I have read so many OW saying MM cannot believe they are so lucky to have dated them. Because MM never thought they would have a chance to be with such a beautiful OW since she was out of his league. I have read where OW claim the wife is not as attractive. So many OW say the affair started because of "attraction". It seems the OW are usually more attractive and much younger than MM. I sometimes think it gives boost to OW to think they are the best the MM can get. But I wonder what is in it OW? A married man who most likely has financial baggage,kids,responsibilities,wife,has to sneak around and who sees you when he can. Also at times can be much older. So what is it that makes him so darned attractive, OW cannot help but get into the situation in the first place. The attraction must have been there initially/ So what is it? What does this MM have that most single men do not? I would like to imagine his charisma and charm were irresistible. I mean there has to have been something that is so exceptional, you are ok with putting up with the situation and the baggage that comes with this type of relationship. Perhaps he is so special you do not think you can do better. I'm sorry if I had it all wrong but your OP came across as pretty nasty for being curious. And when you never responded it didn't help. Not a thing smacked of sincerity but if I'm wrong I'm sorry. What was special about him? He was him and we fell in love. It was that simple.
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