Twnowk Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 Dang . . . time goes by fast. Anyways, during the summer after I graduated high school, I met the most wonderful girl in the world at a church camp. We quickly became inseparable, always talking, texting, laughing and hanging out. At the time I was very young and immature and was incapable of controlling the feelings I had for her, and it ruined our relationship. I still see her from time to time as we go to the same church. We're not really on speaking terms but have mutual friends. At the moment, I realize that college and a career are most important in my life. But from time to time I dwell on the past and I was wondering if It would ever be possible for me and her to have a relationship again. Honestly, I would settle for a friendship at this point so that I may at least have her in my life. I would really appreciate some advice on how to do so. Or really any advice on how to deal with this situation.
Faith13/2 Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 Since you had the fall out with her have you ever attempted to speak to her? I don't mean as soon as the incident happened more so after you gave it sometime to cool off a bit?
Author Twnowk Posted August 18, 2013 Author Posted August 18, 2013 Since that time I've only really talked to her once.
Faith13/2 Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 Maybe since it's been a little while you could try to start up a friendly conversation, even if it's a simple "Hi" at church, you never know what could happen if you don't at least try... Just take it slow if she does choose to respond to you.
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