Car10e Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 I posted here a few ago, but I thought I'd come here for advice again. To make things short, I started seeing a guy in the beginning of May. Started hanging out a little more when school got out for the both of us. He lives almost 2 hours away during school, so I don't expect to see him much. He has started summer school and I found out he moved closer to campus so he doesn't have to drive far. His hometown is about 25 minutes away from me, and he comes home most weekends. I haven't seen him for a month, and communication is pretty minimal. I know with him moving back to school he is pretty busy, so I don't expect to see him all that much, which I am fine with. Since last month all contact has been initiated by me. I feel like he isn't interested and I just annoy him if I do contact him. He responds every time. I'm kind of stuck, because I feel like if he wasn't interested he wouldn't reply or he would just tell me he's not interested. I just texted him after a week of not hearing from him, and he texted back, "Hey whats going on?" I want to reply back and ask if I'll see him again, but I'm not sure if thats being too straight forward? A little background info: I have met his family & friends. We were also intimate when we saw each other every week. My question is, should I just ask him if I'll see him again?
It-is-what-it-is. Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 Doesn't sound like he's interested. Sorry.
Author Car10e Posted August 18, 2013 Author Posted August 18, 2013 Doesn't sound like he's interested. Sorry. Yeah, thats what I was thinking. But he did just text me again. I haven't replied yet, as I don't know what to say yet.
It-is-what-it-is. Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 Did he text ou first out of the blue or respond to you?
Author Car10e Posted August 18, 2013 Author Posted August 18, 2013 Did he text ou first out of the blue or respond to you? No, as I wrote above I texted him and he responded. I was thinking of whether I should just ask. I haven't replied yet, but he texted back an hour after first replying saying he's sorry he's been really busy. Still not sure what to think :/ I haven't said anything back yet.
It-is-what-it-is. Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 No, as I wrote above I texted him and he responded. I was thinking of whether I should just ask. I haven't replied yet, but he texted back an hour after first replying saying he's sorry he's been really busy. Still not sure what to think :/ I haven't said anything back yet. I would not respond. I would let it sit. Think of it this way...You are out on a Saturday night, having a ball, not checking your phone. You can text him tomorrow, or not. You are too available right now. I would wait to see if he picks up the slack since he has been Luke warm on his responses.
Author Car10e Posted August 18, 2013 Author Posted August 18, 2013 I would not respond. I would let it sit. Think of it this way...You are out on a Saturday night, having a ball, not checking your phone. You can text him tomorrow, or not. You are too available right now. I would wait to see if he picks up the slack since he has been Luke warm on his responses. Ok, thanks for the advice.
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