mesmerized Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 Recently some of my girl friends have been a HUGE disappointment. They cancel on me, act weird around me or just don't seem to want to go out with me. The thing is, with these girl friends, I guess objectively they might be considered less attractive than me and that causes me to get more attention. They don't like that and it's understandable. I think any female here knows what I'm talking about. So do you have the same issue? If so how do you deal with it? Do you go out with girl friends of the exact level of attractiveness? More attractive?
Faith13/2 Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 (edited) So do you have the same issue? If so how do you deal with it? Do you go out with girl friends of the exact level of attractiveness? More attractive? I personally think this comes down to the girls self-esteem. If you're confident in yourself you probably won't pay much mind to what your friends look like compared to you. Not to assume, but I doubt your friends are keeping their distance from you just because you may be more attractive, there's probably more to it.. Edited August 18, 2013 by Faith13/2
Faith13/2 Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 So do you have the same issue? If so how do you deal with it? Do you go out with girl friends of the exact level of attractiveness? More attractive?
tbf Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 My close friends vary from good looking to stunning, so it's not an issue. One of my oldest and dearest friends went through a competitive phase when we were teens. Any guy that either I was interested in or showed interest towards me, she would immediately attempt to get him. It was at first quite annoying but then I figured out that she was the world's best natural filter for the dine and dashers because the ones who would go for her would dine and dash! She grew out of that phase pretty quickly after figuring out her own stupidity and subsequently matured into a wonderful person.
amaysngrace Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 Women can be vicious. As soon as they don't like something about you they'll turn on you in a heartbeat. Especially if they feel threatened by you. It's their insecurities. Their problem.
Divasu Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 So do you have the same issue? If so how do you deal with it? Do you go out with girl friends of the exact level of attractiveness? More attractive? I did once with someone I've been friends with for 20 years. If she wasn't the center of attention when she would go out with other women (didn't matter what they looked like) she would sit there with a puss on her face all night and act like a child. It reached a boiling point and I told her to cut the sh*t and we didn't speak for several months. We patched things up a few years ago and things have been fine ever since. 1
sweetkiwi Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 Women can be vicious. As soon as they don't like something about you they'll turn on you in a heartbeat. Especially if they feel threatened by you. It's their insecurities. Their problem. Yup. I've never had this problem with genuine best friends. A few times they've told me they were jealous of certain things but they always act like my best friends and wouldn't be so childish. They're all beautiful in their own ways. I've had casual friends who began acting jealous with me. One of them, who I had problems on and off with, even fhucked a guy I was dating. (We hadn't had sex yet but they both got cut out of my life). Another "friend" was roommates with my best friend. I couldn't stand her constant jealousy but I had to hangout with her anyway. She said some brutal stuff to me and about me. I could see through it and laughed in her face. But really I wanted to punch her in the throat . Here in Italy nearly all the women are this way. I have one close friend who is maybe the most beautiful woman I've ever seen. Like Lucy Lu but half Italian. We have never had issues because like me, women here have been cruel to her also. The only time there's been an issue was when she didn't want to makeout with me . 2
Seductive Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 (edited) Recently some of my girl friends have been a HUGE disappointment. They cancel on me, act weird around me or just don't seem to want to go out with me. The thing is, with these girl friends, I guess objectively they might be considered less attractive than me and that causes me to get more attention. They don't like that and it's understandable. I think any female here knows what I'm talking about. So do you have the same issue? If so how do you deal with it? Do you go out with girl friends of the exact level of attractiveness? More attractive? Yes, I have had female friends that do that and act weird. I don't waste my time on it. My philosophy is "Love those who love you." I do feel like I can sense who is jealous. It's a prickly vibe they give off or a flat facial expression they have. These women also give you "helpful advice" disguised as wanting to see you fail. I'm sorry, but bitter female friends give horrible dating advice. I do have a few good female friends that come off as secure, confident and put together. Edited August 18, 2013 by Seductive 1
MissBee Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 Recently some of my girl friends have been a HUGE disappointment. They cancel on me, act weird around me or just don't seem to want to go out with me. The thing is, with these girl friends, I guess objectively they might be considered less attractive than me and that causes me to get more attention. They don't like that and it's understandable. I think any female here knows what I'm talking about. So do you have the same issue? If so how do you deal with it? Do you go out with girl friends of the exact level of attractiveness? More attractive? I don't have this issue. I think most of my friends are good looking to very good looking, but we all look different, yet we all attract guys and we have different tastes. So I haven't experienced any petty jealousy over anyone's looks.
hppr Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 How old are you mesmerized? Maybe it's time to get new friends.
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